wanted to know what man is at his house?? Ok, I had an accident and called my mother to come over and help me, I need to go to the hospital, her and her fiance came over to take the kids to school and take me to the hospital. My mothers' fiance took the kids to school while I got ready to go. When he came back, he had ran into one of the niebors that had came to also take the kids to school. My mothers fiance told him that he had just dropped them off and was going to take me to the hospital now. Later, I get a call from my husband who is at work, asking who I had at the house? I had told him, and it was dropped. But now thinking about it some and wondering what was said to the neibor that he felt the need to call my husband at work but not to come in and see what is going on or if I am ok?
The neibor is a friend of our's and I watch his daughter every morning. So I feel he has the right to ask what is going on, or see if I am ok, his daughter's here!
2007-01-09 05:25:09 · 13 answers · asked by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I feel like my husband feels the need to spy on me.
2007-01-09 05:26:01 · update #1
If your husband is okay with it, let it go. If it ever happened again, I would talk to the neighbor.
2007-01-09 05:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a big problem here. I am married for more than what you have mentioned. When I go on overseas trip, which will be like twice a year I just call from the hotel to inform that I reached safely and that is it. Probably the reason for this may be the fact that your husband knows that you are safe in the home and you are capable of taking care of the children. Sometimes we men are very objective in our approach. When we know something is fine we don't go and ask if it is fine. Another reason is that we are afraid that is something is not right we may be not able to solve it as well because we are so far off. We make sure that everything is provided for before we leave and expect the wife to handle things as it comes. So with this explanation I don't think there is anything amiss in your family life. Take it sportingly.
2016-05-22 23:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The neighbor may have just asked in passing who the man helping you out was, it may not have been anything more than that.
You should ask your husband how it came about that he knew that a man was at your house. I know that mine would tell me. If he had dropped the issue after your answer, you probably don't have anything to worry about. He may have just been curious.
2007-01-09 05:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are some what good looking and your neighbor likes you. I would be concerned going to work thinking that my neighbor is after my wife.
How ever the situation that you are describing here. If I were your husband, I would have left the job (work) to take care of my own. No job is more important than wife and kids.
2007-01-09 05:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd of question him and asked him who told him a man was here? What were their exact words? What time did they call him? And then I would of told the neighbor some blabbermouth took it upon themselves to call my man at work and told him a man was here. Someone must be awfully noisy and bored to keep tabs on me like that. But that's ok because I can keep tabs on them too and make phone calls.
2007-01-09 06:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the neibor did not want to walk in if something was happening at the house. example: robery gone wrong or something. He called your hubby to make sure everything was ok. Your husband called to make sure.
2007-01-09 05:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your husband about it because it sounds like he has a major trust issue. Plus I would inform the friend that it is none of his business who is at your house and to keep his nose out of your business. He sounds like he is just a troublemaker.
2007-01-09 05:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you need to have a heart to heart with your husband. This need of spying, or his jealousy can cause trouble later on in life. It's not healthy, and not healthy for your relationship. Either he trusts you or not........then ask him to give you reasons why he doesn't trust you. Best of luck.
2007-01-09 05:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my neighbor to stay out of my business and don't call my husband at work for some dumb sh*t if your going to call him at work let it be important.It seems like your neighbor is a sh*t starter or maybe he wants u for himself.
2007-01-09 05:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id be upset with him. If you have never given him a reason to distrust you, then he has no reason to be suspicious. Maybe your neighbors should mind their business. You shouldn't have to explain anything if you havent did anything wrong.
2007-01-09 05:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by shorty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋