Isn't it natural for people to get accustomed to sleep alone? We have been taught this since our childhood...then how do people manage to share bed for the rest of their lives with their partner after getting married?
2007-01-09 05:21:03 · 11 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i never thought about that. when it happened and i had to share the bed with him, it was more like: finally I feel complete! now i can tell you that i cannot fall asleep if I dont feel him next to him. and sometimes he definitely has to hug me or i wont fall asleep at all. the only problem is with the blankets. we cant share blankets because he moves a lot so I have a blanket for me and he has a blanket for himself that way I wont wake up because i feel cold! LOL
2007-01-09 05:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by chikis 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you are married sleeping together is easy.Especially after having sex. It does take sometime getting use to it. Buy a bigger bed so you both have your own space.Remember this is the person you chose to share the rest of your life with. It should be easy to share your bed.
2007-01-09 05:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by fabulosity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's like anything else, you get used to it. If you still are not accustomed to sleeping with someone, you could always get a king-sized bed. Having a king-sized bed is like sleeping in your own country; you sleep on one side, and he sleeps on the other side. Good luck.
2007-01-09 05:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ain't easy! That's just my opinion. My husband's a twin and has slept with somebody else since the freaking womb, so he has a completely different view. He can't sleep if I'm NOT in the bed.
2007-01-09 05:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you sleep together with your partner, you want to be close to them, so it's doesn't take long to become accustomed to having them there. Touching them or them touching you during the night is comforting.
2007-01-09 05:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's the most lovely feeling to sleep with the one you love. I don't care if he snores, grunts, kicks or whatever, he's warm and smells wonderful and makes me feel loved. It's probably my favorite part of the day - when I get to sleep with him and be all cozy. I have a very hard time sleeping if he's not there and when he's out of town I wear his robe or sleep with one of his shirts.
2007-01-09 05:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i admire sleeping on my own... i like to hog all the covers, roll around alot, and each so often hear to track at the same time as sleeping ... If I have been to sleep with my boyfriend all the time i could like a king length mattress...
2016-10-30 10:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first its awkward, but then you get used to it. Then sooner or later you cant sleep with out them by your side.
2007-01-09 05:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by DDee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just get use to it i mean i got so use to sleeping with my husband that before he and i got married and we have a separation period i ended up sleeping on the couch at my parents because i was so use to sleeping with him
2007-01-09 05:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by leespitt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be sure to get a king-sized bed!!!
2007-01-09 05:37:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋