I been with my girlfriend for a year on Jan 7,2007 and I love her but she thinks that she is not good enough for me like she has to give me every thing everyday I tell her that all I want is her but she saids that I'm just being nice to her. so now I think that she going tobrake up with me what do I can anybody help me
2007-01-09 04:59:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just leave her alone let her buy you things
2007-01-09 05:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by Pink 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some People Need To Be Shown You Jus Can't Tell Her That She Is The Only One For You Show It And She Will See That You Want Her .. Actions Speak Louder Than Words.
2007-01-09 13:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything comes to an end dear. More oftsn than not we can't control the circumstances. If you feel it going south at least you you were expecting it to come about. If she wants to leave you shouldn't stop her but i do think that there's some missing dialouge in there somewhere. She seems to be a little evasive from what you're telling us. I really don't think she's putting everything on the table.
2007-01-09 13:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start doing more for her. Do a little extra to make her feel loved and wanted. She may feel like she has to do a lot for you to keep you happy. Why don't you try doing some of the things that she does. I don't know who does what, but is she cooks a lot than you cook for her. If she does the house work than you start doing it too. Buy her some flowers. Take her shopping. Give her a card just out of the blue. Leave a little love note on her pillow. Than she may start to feel appreciated.
2007-01-09 13:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once she has it in her mind that she is not good enough then things can only get worse if you don't help them now. I think she needs to do things that would help her self esteem. there are many different things you could do. if you know of something that she likes to do. we'll say painting. go to AC Moore or Michaels (with out her knowing) pick up some paints and have an afternoon of painting, make it fun and cute. make her interests your interests. make sure that you both are having fun in the process and that way she will feel more equal to you. I know that alone can not fix her self esteem but it defiantly helps. my husband does it all the time and it makes me feel sooooo good about myself.
2007-01-09 13:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by a.gatenby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's got a lot of deep seeded issues that you simply don't want to tackle....trust me....you don't want this. Let her go!
My son just broke up with his girlfriend of over two years. She was clingy and always angry with him. She constantly had to know where he was every second of the day. He's gearing up to go to college, is in honors and AP classes, he's in two bands, and Chamber Orchestra and has a job on top of it all. He's under a lot of stress but she just gets pissy and clingy all the time.
I know he still cares a lot for her and wishes they could work it out, but I know it's for the best right now.
So, like you and your girlfriend. If she does break up with you, I really think it's probably for the best.
2007-01-09 13:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should definitely talk to her first. But I don't understand why you wanted gay girls to answer this. I think this was a lose / lose situation. Any sexual orient could have told you that you need to talk to her
2007-01-09 13:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her....but u also need to look out for urself n if deep in ur heart somethign tells u that she doesnt wanna be with u ...leave her before its too late n trust me do it dont wait cuz u'll end up getting hurt really bad....
2007-01-09 14:23:10 · answer #8 · answered by L3ZBiiAN SW33TZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has issues:dump her before getting dumped.
Rob.xxx
2007-01-09 13:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋