This girl im'ed me and said i was sexy and that she wanted to call me but i refused cos i have a boyfriend. I must admit if any guy other than my boyfriend tried hitting on me i wouldnt be interested at all! So yeh i was really tempted but im faithful to my boyfriend and wouldnt do anything to hurt him. But does this confirm my bisexual tendencies?
2007-01-09 04:48:25 · 10 answers · asked by tu_sweet189 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No but i am attracted to women you see lol. Am i maybe bicurious?
2007-01-09 05:00:45 · update #1
In my opinion, not exactly. The thing is, nobody else can tell you what you are, or how you want to be identified. Generally, bisexuality is when you have emotional and/or physical attractions to people of either sex/gender. So that's a pretty vague way of saying you could be bisexual.
Being bisexual doesn't mean that you'll automatically want to start dating women, or want to get involved in physical and/or emotional relationships with women while with your boyfriend, or start being unfaithful - but it does mean you're questioning your identity and who you're attracted to. It's totally possible to realize your bisexuality but remain in your happy relationship. It just means acknowledging your attractions aren't towards one gender exclusively.
But it all depends - can you see yourself having a relationship with someone female (suspending the fact you have a boyfriend for a moment)? Are you responding to something emotional and physical, or just physical? Or at this point, are you just curious, and questioning yourself?
It's all about how you feel - if you feel like you are attracted to women and men, that's ok. And if you decide that's not how you feel, that's okay too. I'd say keep examining your feelings. Check out some online resources (I'll list a few below) that might help you along in figuring al this out:
http://www.biresource.org/pamphlets/mightbebi.html
http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/youth/health/pamphlets/bisexual.htm
http://www.alterheros.com
www.outproud.com
**I also want to add that this is NOT a form of homophobia, and you are not homophobic because of this question. You said that you didn't want to call this girl because you have a boyfriend, not that you'd consider meeting her because she's a girl (and someone else accused, which I think is completely wrong) and it "doesn't count". Please don't think that because you're tempted to explore your identity that it makes you homophobic. It makes you curious, and questioning, sure.
But homophobia is 'fear, hatred and ignorance of people who are gay, lesbian, or bisexual', and that's not the feeling that comes across in this question.
2007-01-09 05:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone gets curious. The thing is that you are going to stay curious until you try it out. This puts you in a spot, a catch 22. You're compromising your morals if you do and you'll never know your true nature if you don't. I commend you for remaining faithful to your current partner. It's rare thing these days. Good luck sweetie, This is a tough one and I hope you find a solution.
2007-01-09 05:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nah, you're basically curious. in case you've not in any respect been with a guy, or continually had somewhat undesirable studies with adult males, then if its been awhile, you would possibly want to purely be attempting to save in recommendations what it is like and interest is kindling. in case you and your female friend are monogomous, you should probable talk such as her about it (if she's hardcore, she received't take it nicely). in case you do not favor to jeopardize it, you would possibly want to purely favor to video show some guy/lady (ahem) adult content and observe even if that's a turn-on...even if that's, you would possibly want to favor to stumble on slightly better. you're purely bisexual in case you opt for actual relationships with adult males and females...in case you do not really do the act itself with a guy, that makes you bi-curious (often, it is any incorrect way round, and that's a heterosexual lady having a fantasy about yet another lady, yet whats up, it is the USA of a). solid success!
2016-12-02 01:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by huehn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, actually it confirms a homophobia of sorts. (Not trying to be mean here...sorry) But you see going out with another guy as cheating but going out with another girl wouldn't be, which means you don't see cheating with a girl as cheating because it's not equal to your relationship with a guy.
It's a hidden form of homophobia actually...I know, that sounds rough, but I'm not trying to insult or offend you at all.
2007-01-09 04:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by DEATH 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No.it only confirms the other girl has the hots for you.
Rob.xxx
2007-01-09 04:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be bi curious but you didn't act on it so I wouldn't worry your self about it. sometimes we all have thought about same sex relationships I did but really not interested in men I like females tooooo much
2007-01-09 05:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by ransom53 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no you are straight as a Bord maybe a little homophobic though
2007-01-09 04:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea, You r bi all you had to do was call me sweetie
2007-01-09 05:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by Pink 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you liked it when she wrote you then you might be gay
2007-01-09 05:01:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your dumb.
2007-01-09 06:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by brandonwitt226 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋