2007-01-09 04:39:29 · 33 answers · asked by krie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah, or kick her ***..
2007-01-09 04:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly had nothing to do with whatever is happening, then your friend never should have accused you. In my opinion, that's not a friend. A friend would give you the benefit of the doubt, or wouldn't doubt you in the first place! Demanding an apology won't do any good. All that will do is make the person think that you're defensive. I would find a new friend! But that's just me.
2007-01-09 04:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologies are hard for many people to make. Yes, your friend may have hurt you by accusing you, but they are still your friend....and hurting them, yelling at them, or putting them on the spot might make them defensive and could easily cause an argument. Be gentle when you "demand" your apology. Let them know how much it bothered you that they didn't trust you and didn't listen to you. You'll probably get the apology a lot easier this way. Like that old saying, you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.
2007-01-09 04:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by ladyfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who accused me of things that I didn't do. I was very upset with her for what she accused me of. Well, she did apologize to me but now I don't feel the same way about her. I just got tired of her crap. We haven't talked in almost 3 years.
2007-01-09 04:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost is your friend your truest amongst your friends.Say 10 years of love & hate relationships.
Or he/she is just an aquaintance from the school,office or circle of friends.
If the accusation seems so below the belt and she /he seems to mean it very badly.You are in hot water.
If the accusation seems so bland or nothing insulting involved just to make it FUNNY thing out of it,then that's nothing to worry.
If your friend is so close to you.Why don't u speak to him/her?Heart to heart.You may invite her in a room,park or cafeteria.
Discuss the THING that bothered you?
Explain to her politely and truthfully your side.No more No less.
If along your Heart to heart Talk she realize her faults.
She will be the first one to OPEN an APOLOGY to you.
Friends are jewels.They will stick to you for a long time.
2007-01-09 04:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not very well trusted or believed or respected by your so called friend..wonder why he/she didn't believe you in the first place ,have you ever done any thing that made her distrust you ..which ever way you look at it.... you lost credibility and trust ..and she lost the same respect in your eyes ,
get new friend ,make a new start ..you don't need people around you , who accuse you of wrong doing ,when you
had no part of it ,
"Accusing" a friend is not the way it's done ..
2007-01-09 08:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could.
But any apology delivered on demand would be less than heartfelt, don't you think?
I would reconsider this and maybe just tell the person, "I believe you owe me an apology."
That's different, right?
And if the person tried to give me a premature apology, one that wasn't thought out and had no real feeling behind it and was just a gut reaction to my statement, I'd respectfully reject it at that time and tell the person I'd rather they gave me one when and if they really felt it.
Otherwise, it means nothing to me.
2007-01-09 04:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but in a different way. dont just say "i want an apology" go about it relaxed. sit down and ask them what made them think that u did what ever it is that u did? dont get angry!!!! it will make things worse. just tell them that u rnt like that and u would appreciate it if they didnt make acusations about stuff they dont know for a fact. if they truely believe u then they will apologize without even asking for one. and if they dont then just say "i think that i diserve and apology" if they want to be d i ck s about it then they must not be very good friends!!!
2007-01-09 04:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by babyblues452 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not necessarily.
Just put yourself in his or her place, where you were so positive, and later found out you were mistaken... Would you like to be in a position being demanded for an apology ?!
Afterall, what are friends for ??
2007-01-09 04:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, once your name has been cleared you should expect one that's for sure. If your friend doesn't come up with one on her/his own than you could demand one, although how can you be sure it's sincere if you had to ask for it? Apologies are like compliments, they are better given freely.
2007-01-09 04:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person was really your friend he would have not accused you.Just leave it alone and let him figure it out and wait for an apology.
2007-01-09 04:45:49 · answer #11 · answered by Jay Retzer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋