I understand that dreams do not mean the obvious but that there is some kind of hidden meaning. I have been dating a man for a couple weeks now. It has been too long since I have met someone intelligent and charming like himself. We spend quite a bit of time together but aren't moving fast. In the past week I have had this dream twice; both times being when we stayed the night together. The dream is very short. It simply consists of him telling me "You're not as pretty as you think you are" and me being speechless. There may be more to the dream but I do not remember it. We are not sexually active and we see other people. It's obvious he is interested in me by the amount of time we spend together but otherwise I wouldn't be so sure. What does this dream mean? The first dream we were laying in bed, the second we were at a bar with his friends.
2007-01-09 04:29:14 · 13 answers · asked by hogue_amanda 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Only you know what your dream means. Your emotions IN the dream are key to meaning.
And yes, dreams are metaphors, sometimes with characters reversed. Perhaps this statement, "You're not as pretty as you think you are," is something you would like to say to him. Does that give you a tingle of recognition? The word "pretty" has multiple meanings here. Do you hear them? Perhaps things "look" too good (too pretty) right now.
Also, since you've had the dream twice, pay attention to when you have the dream. What precedes it? Some feeling about him or about yourself or both?
You are the final authority on your dream's meaning(s).
2007-01-09 05:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by joanmazza 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-30 10:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lover
To see a lover in your dream, symbolizes acceptance, self-worth, and acknowledgment of your true inner value. It may also indicate integration of masculine and feminine traits into yourself. You are feeling complete or whole.
To dream of an old or former lover, signifies unfinished/unresolved issues related to that specific relationship. Your current relationship may be awakening some of those same issues.
Bed
To see your bed in your dream, represents you intimate self and discovery of your sexuality. If you are sleeping in your own bed, then it denotes security and restoration of your mind. You are looking for domestic bliss and peace. If you are waking up in different and/or unknown beds, then it represents the consequences of the decisions you have made.
To dream that you are searching for a bed, suggests that you are having difficulties acknowledging your intimate self. You may be feeling inhibited in expressing your sexuality. Alternatively, it may also mean that you are looking for domestic security and happiness.
To dream that you are going to bed with a stranger, suggests that you are making friends too fast. You need to be more cautious.
To dream that you are floating or lifting up into the air from your bed, suggests that you are feeling helpless and disconnected from those around you. Your ideas may be alienating people. You might need to tone down your personality a bit.
Bar
To dream that you are at a bar, signifies your desire to escape from the stresses of your daily life and retreat into a light-hearted environment where pleasure abounds. Alternatively, you are seeking for acceptance in some aspect of your daily life.
2007-01-09 06:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Cheshire Riddle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you think before sleep may come in dreams. Also, your fears and fantasies find their way into the dreams.
In your case, you like the man. However, you seem to have some inferiority complex and fear that he does not like you and may lose him.
If you are confident, this would not happen.
Talk to yourself. If you were in his position, would you like a girl like you !!
Anyways, all the best.
Regards
Ramesh
The Human Search Engine
2007-01-09 04:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In aspects of dreams generally you represent all parties in the dream, You maybe battling some sense of image you have of yourself.. For the message I see is accept yourself for your faults and features. Don't over inflate who you are as who you appear to be, Be Genuine not a facade.
2007-01-09 05:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It merely indicates that there is some possible hesitation and fear of totally committing. It's not so much him telling you that you are not pretty, but more of you thinking, subconsciously, you are not ready to committ. We all have defense mechanisms that we use to resist. These particular mechanisms can come in different forms. The "not so pretty" comment may also have to do with your esteem?
2007-01-09 04:37:48 · answer #6 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW!! See your questioning your self. The whole "You're not as pretty as you think you are" is probley a sepret matter but it has so happend to mix in with your dream about like this guy. So the overall meaning is you think you're not as pretty as you think you are. He just so happen's to be telling you that
2007-01-10 04:05:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sarcastic-cheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know , but you could very well be like "Joseph" the one in the bible with the coat of many colors!!! Just write down your dreams, and see if your a "Prophet" by later looking back at your Dream Journal, and seeing how many of them came true in real life you know..... How fun would that be!!! Smile~!~!
2007-01-09 04:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its sounds like you are scared of commitment. you are afraid that if you fully commit to him then he won't love you for you. Its basically saying that you are scared that he won't love you just for you versus just how you look. You're mind is trying to tell you that you need to get him to love you for you and not for superficial reasons.
2007-01-09 06:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a subcontious low opinion of yourself & need to move forward forget seeing other people if your truly interested in each other the sparks will fly
2007-01-09 04:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋