why is that i easily cried and hurt whenever someone laugh at my dumb mistake and avoid me like I'm a disease?Also,why I can't take any rude,harsh negative comment about what people saying about me.Why is that I'm the only type of person whom people easily forgets like some of my former highschool friend?Right now,I feel so insecure,sulky,desperate,lonely as if I want to stand away from everyone else....What's so wrong about me????Is it my fault that I'm not a Whizard or genius like EInstein or my genius mates????
2007-01-09 04:01:43 · 10 answers · asked by desperate lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you are sensitive and there is nothing wrong with that. if your friends treat you badly then they are not very good pals are they. try making friends of different age groups - not everybody is a pig although it may often seem so.
2007-01-09 04:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what is going on. Low self esteem and lack of confidence/insecurity. You cry because you feel, right or wrong, that when people laugh at your mistakes, they are attacking you. In my opinion, short of therapy, you need to get out there and NOT shy away. If you are not smart, so be it. Look at yourself and determine what your strengths are or what they could be and work with what you have. Basically, you need to look inward and WORK HARD to improve yourself. Only then will your self image and confidence increase and you will feel better. When you feel better about yourself and show interest in yourself, associates around you will also show interest. It will take some time, but it will come.
Good luck and don't give up.
2007-01-09 04:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie we all make dumb mistakes. I've made some beauts. It's the ability to laugh at oneself that's the difference. It's sounds like you think you are the sum of your dumb mistakes. You're not. Are you sure people avoid you or are you thinking they are because of how you feel about yourself? Sounds like you have a selfesteem issue. You sound very young. I know it cliche but, things will get better. As far as Einstein goes, did you know he never knew how to tie his shoes? Nobody ever laughed at him, but , I bet they did when he was growing up! Hiding yourself away from everyone will just make things worse for you. So, get out there and have some fun. Stop taking yourself so seriously.
2007-01-09 04:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets start with the fact that you are female, that alone is a good enough reason to be emotional. (no offense intended)
Is there anything wrong with being such a sensitive soul? I think not.. in fact that very part of your nature may just be one of your best qualities. When used for its intended purpose it can bring healing and love to those so desperately in need of a tender touch.
I am also one of those sensitive types..only I am a man which goes totally against the "macho" image that a man is defined as.. in the worlds view.
Here is the deal... we were all created... and created we were. We are not the product of something that escaped the mud puddle!
You were created for a purpose and God had a plan when he created you! Yes.... for YOU
First thing... KNOW that you are loved by him, acceptance by friends falls very short in the light of His love and acceptance of you Dear.
I highly recommend reading "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren
I also recommend reading the Gospels in the new testament of the bible. John's gospel is a good place to start.
2007-01-09 04:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Friend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try some Zoloft,or anxiety medication,it kinda sounds like your a little confused in one sentence calling your self a genius and in another saying you are insecure? that is not something an insecure person would say(genius)
2007-01-09 04:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by apallo123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not your fault but you sound very frazzled so take a deep breath and get some counsel ling.
2007-01-09 04:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are gettin this too serious. You need to get loose and start to think how much these are silly to get serious. Move on, start laugh. If it was me, i will laugh because its worthless to get serious about it. If you want to be like them, you can't. You have to be who you are.
2007-01-09 04:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your being misunderstood. Don't take it so personal, it happens to everyone. Ignore those people.
2007-01-09 04:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents or GP. you need to tell someone before u have a breakdown this is not normal.good luck
2007-01-09 04:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-09 04:06:53 · answer #10 · answered by Uruk-Hai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋