If I go out to a club and get drunk and bring I guy home it makes me a slut, but a guy can do it and it is ok. I just don't understand.
2007-01-09 03:40:27 · 31 answers · asked by blue_eyes 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It's how life works. I'm not saying that it's right, but that is how it is. It diminishes as you get older & women are more free to explore their sexuality.
2007-01-09 03:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Such is the double standard, but it's diminishing rapidly and if you live on your own then you had your fun so who cares what everyone else things?
rent and see as much of sex and the city (the last few seasons are best) and see how the Samantha caricature makes no excuses regarding her men chasing habits.
The most important thing here is: You can't get too drunk as to not remember to use protection and practise safe sex at all time. Also, one night stands can end up badly, if you do not know the guy. He could be a serial killer for all you know.
Have fun but be careful. and if anyone has an issue, give then a tissue.
2007-01-09 03:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey - it is the case of the old double standard.
For a man to have a sexual appetite - makes him more of a man (don't know who wrote the rules on that)
Nothing wrong with going out and meeting a guy. If the vibes are right and you are feeling each other - why not have a one night stand?
If you are comfortable with yourself - do what you want. Just protect yourself - lot of diseases running rampant out there.
2007-01-09 03:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by sugar_pink_candy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you don't understand the greatness of woman for ,we are the vessel for all mankind,God chose woman to be the bringer of life,so we are to treat our bodies as temples and we are to demand that men treat us with worthiness because we bear their children.We have fallen from our high place and allowed the world to strip us of our rightful respect by liberating ourselves,we've gone too far and lost direction to our right ful place in Gods kingdom on earth.Womens rights should not have meant that we should be on tv and in movies naked.Womens rights didn't mean that we could have as many men in our beds as we wanted for we are liberated,that only made a world with thousands of kids who live without their fathers.Kids who live in one house with several different fathers and some may have visits form their fathers while others stand by and watch without their fathers.There are a lot of reasons why women should be more careful about what they do and who they do things with.
2007-01-09 03:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair, but thats just the way society makes it. I think it goes back to a caveman way of thinking that men are the hunters with an expected sexual appetite, where as the woman is supposed to sit at home tending to babies and preparing meals. I hate that standard to, but it's just the way it is.
2007-01-09 03:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unfortunate, but women will always be judged differently in a case like that. It's society I suppose, but just so you know, I wouldn't look down on you for it. You're only doing what us guys would do.
2007-01-09 03:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right. While the guy is considered a stud, we are a w****. It's called the old double standard honey!
All guys want to marry a virgin, but if they're sleeping with all us "easy" gals getting "their" experience, it's not exactly possible, is it?
2007-01-09 03:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by KrazyKat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your classic double standard........because men are supposed to "spread their seed" while women are to keep their bodies a sacred place to bring children into the world with.
I don't agree, but I think that's where it came from. I think men and women alike should refrain from sleeping around, keep sex something they share with someone they truly care about.
2007-01-09 03:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by Just Me 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This shows the cruelty towards woman rights! That is why one of the reasons marriage is there. A woman is ***** if a guy takes her or she takes a guy back home for sex. The guy is a perverted jerk. They should find a new word for these perverted guys!
2007-01-09 03:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by PEZ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats a classic example of gender disequality i think. women are typically expected as the ones who should stay at home and be loyal to their husbands/boyfriends or be pure and chaste whereas its a different case for guys
2007-01-09 05:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by Riko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a double standard. From birth, males are encouraged to be studly, and and females are encourged to be chaste. So society judges you based on those concepts. However wrong they are, it is what happens.
2007-01-09 03:44:50 · answer #11 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋