Unctroled anger, weak mind: There is a person i know her problem is that whenever she is said to do?

Question

any kind of task or any kind of favour she gets very angry. doesnt behave at all. most of the time of the day she reamains very angry.

she is not good in studies. whenever she is said to join any kind of school or course, she is not willing and will only say i cant do it, and if you motivate her or pressurise her to do atleast something , again she wont be ready to do it and if she starts doing something it she wont do it with heart. she appears to be very weak in learning, understanding.
she is 21years old but doesnt have any same age freinds because she doesnt have a mentality of other same age girls

but if she wants to do something by herself, like if she want s to cook something her self,or want to do something of her own interest, then she acts like a normal less than average intellegen person

her parents are very sad and upset due to her condition

so anyone who can suggest anything , they will be thankful

Answer 1

perhaps, she has a learning disability or adult Autism.


http://www.mentalhealth.com
http://www.cchr.org <<<<<--------an alternative site without a psychological view.

Answer 2

Whenever it comes to learning it is always easier for any of us to learn if it is something we're naturally interested in. What can be a challenge for anybody is having to get up the "energy" and motivation to learn something we're not all that interested in.

For a person who has a hard time learning getting up motivation and interest and energy can be more difficult; because learning is more of a challenge.

Chances are, too, day-to-day life can be difficult enough for this young woman. It may take about as much energy as she has to deal with normal stuff; and asking her to do more may be more than she feels up to.

When people get angry at being asked to do something it is usually because they are feeling they can't do much more, and they resent having others think up stuff for them to do. This young woman may even have depression for any number of reasons, and expecting a person with depression to do anything just upsets them.

She and her parents may find it helpful to talk with a counselor about anything the young woman may be unhappy about and about how the parents are feeling about what is going on. Sometimes someone who is a professional and who is objective can offer some ideas on making everyone feel a little happier or at least understand the other people better.

Her parents could actually have a little depression of their own because it is very challenging and sad to watch a child grow up struggling and having difficulty. Again, a counselor could figure this out and offer them some ideas.

It is probably unfair to say she has a "weak" mind. She may have a mind that is more challenged than some, but "weak" isn't a fair thing to call it. People get angry when they are asked or expected to do more than they feel up to doing and get to a point where they feel they're not allowed to just relax. They can get angry if they're asked to do something they will find difficult to do because they know it will upset them to try. They can get angry if they're expected to join a group of people or class and deal with whatever they, personally, must deal with just to be there (even if they can learn the material).

People also get angry when others are "on their back" or don't seem to understand what they are going through.

Again, a counselor could sort all this out and help the young woman and her parents understand what the others are going through better than they do now.

Answer 3

She needs some group therapy or a private counselor at her economic level. No kidding. She is feeling forced into a life or a choice she doesn't want. She's sick and tired of being told what to do or having too many expectations put before her. Could someone just let her be herself? That might help. Get off her a** and see what happens. Let her live. There's room in this world for us all. The bomb has not gone off yet!!! Until it does, give her a break.

Answer 4

I worked with mentally challenged people who had inappropriate behaviors for many years. This young woman would benefit greatly from being in a behavior intervention group home and/or a day program where she would have structure. She needs goals for both self-help skills and behavior skills. There she would find friendships with people with similar disabilities. If she's living at home, she probably feels that her life has limited meaning but if she had proper structure, she could find work in a day program such as a sheltered workshop. She would also benefit from occupational therapy. At her age, she needs to be away from her parents for at least the daytime hours. She needs to be treated as an adult by professionals who can help her find self worth as she is trained to work and live up to her abilities.

Answer 5

Maybe she is doing drugs??? Don't know for sure but her parents should probably ask her or try to find out.

Answer 6

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