I'm having dificulty stopping with him cause it's so much better than what I get at home. I'm hooked
2007-01-09 03:11:54 · 39 answers · asked by Coolgal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Karma will take care of it. What goes around, comes around.
2007-01-09 03:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your husband is doing the same thing - he's got a sweatheart too cuz you're boring at home in the sac. I'm sure he could find someone who is better in bed than you, there's always someone out there wilder so how would you feel if he was doing it too?
Seriously, tell him your cheating on him and see how he reacts - honesty will get you to the end. Short term pain will give you long term gain.
2007-01-09 03:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by efil_4_msdb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PUSH
Pray
Until
Something
Happens!
You can get some therapy and/or divorce your husband; that it just not fair to him. If you have a good man reach down deep into your soul and find a way to make things right. First thing on the agenda-love the one you're with and leave the sweetheart.
2007-01-09 03:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by msijg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is YOUR life. However, the decisions you make in your life will directly effects others around you. In this situation it effects your marriage and your "sweetheart". I would suggest making a list of the things you admire/love/enjoy about each man. Evaluate your goals/likes/ values with the other. From this list decide which one is most compatible with you. You must decide between the two - because having both will defintely NOT last forever.
2007-01-09 03:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by rachie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave your husband do him the honor. Sex Sex Sex.....Man what kind of world do you live in self gratification is that what your all about? Does your husband give you all the other things such as forsaking all others and maybe honor and cherish.He is so much better off without you please leave for that man who you are cheating with and someday he will cheat on you and you will wonder what kind of woman cheats with another woman's man ha ha. You know you are a piece of work
2007-01-09 06:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by patriot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay hooked and get a divorce. No reason to go outside the marriage unless the marriage is over. If you try and have your cake and eat it too you are asking for serious trouble.
BTW your relationship with your "sweetheart" will most probably not last either, you are cheating with them so how can they trust that you won't cheat on them.
2007-01-09 03:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whats really sad is that is what my husbands girlfriend keeps saying to my husband. That she is trying to work things out with her husband, but the sex is so much better with mine.
I think that people need to just start being a little more faithful, and not depend on sex so much.
2007-01-10 13:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by jiltediwfe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? Don't you have morals? You mean you are willing to give up what you have with your husband for the good sex with another man. Would this other guy, treat you like your husband. I think you need to remember why you married your husband in the first place. You are not a good person for cheating on your husband.
2007-01-09 03:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Here is an honest answer-hope it helps.
I knew a guy that was in a similar situation. He burned his house down. His wife and her "sweetheart" were in it. Luckily they got out. He said he didn't care if they burned with it. If it were me, I'd pummel him with an ax handle and claim illegal entry. For you I'd do something that wouldn't leave bruises. I'd probably get the kids too when it comes to divorce time. As for your "sweetheart" in the future, I'm sure you'll cheat on him too. I'm not judging you-do what you want (your life). But, you'd better be careful
2007-01-09 03:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by lkrhtr70 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You poor thing. I need your name, address, phone number, address, ect to really settle this for you. what time are you free?
How do you like it ?missionary/ doggie? free for all?. Most people being religious like the miossionary style.
You would treat your husband better to just divorce him and let him find someone who is faithful and good for him. Unless he knows and just doesn';t care.
Also I think i saw his post yesterday and he said nearly idenically the same thing you just said. YOu must have left the note on your computer and he copied it. He said his lover was so much better than his wife and he was hooked.
He also said he he hoped his wife was gettting as much as him on the side, and found it as pleasant as he did:):):)
2007-01-09 03:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel a shame of your self, cheating on the man you accept him as husband is really bad.
may I ask you a question!
did you accept him only because of sex, there are so many methods to work it out with your husband. if you don't want him in your life just walk away and don't stape him in the back like this. imagine that he cheated on you and when you confront him, his excuse was she is better than you in sex
2007-01-09 03:17:49 · answer #11 · answered by suliman2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋