My husband and I have been seperated for 2 weeks. I left because he said we should seperate for about a month that way we can think things over. I left and came back, then he confessed that he was seeing someone else. I called him everyname I could think of, and left again. He said it wasmy fault cause I never gave him the attention that he needed, and had sex like once a month. He swore on my kids that he would only call her cause she would listen.. Supposedlly she did not know that he was married, and was upset about that. I told him I will come back if you call her to tell her that you want nothing to do with her, he did not want too. Then I said why and then he said cause she changed her number. I questioned my self if he promised not to call her how did he know she changed her # ? I love him with all my heart and we are going to see a marriage counceleor to help us both? But do you think that will really help? Should I forgive him? Will the counceling help me forget?
2007-01-09 02:55:16 · 6 answers · asked by Hot MILF 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No you shouldn't! Dump him to the curb ASAP! Never let anyone blame you for anything,it was his fault that he was with someone else and not yours. You could try the counseling but, you will never forget.
2007-01-09 03:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET ME START BY SAYING U HAVE A GOOD POINT THERE IF HE PROMISED NOT 2 CALL HER HOW DID HE KNOW THAT SHE CHANGED HER #, SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THAT. U CAN TRY 2 WORK IT OUT BUT IT'S NEVER GOING 2 B THE SAME, U WILL NOT TRUST HIM. WHEN HE GOES OUT 2 THE STORE AND TAKES A LONG TIME U R GOING 2 START THINKING WRONG WHATEVER HE DOES UR MIND IS GOING 2 PLAY TRICKS ON U. RIGHT NOW UR HEART IS BROKEN, U HAVE A BIG SCAR IN UR HEART AND LIKE THEY TOLD ME B 4 U CAN 4 GIVE AND 4 GET BUT SCARS NEVER HEAL U WILL ALWAYS FEEL THAT SCAR IN UR HEART NO MATTER WHAT. BUT GOOD LUCK IF U THINK IT COULD WORK I WISH U THE BEST BUT DON'T FALL ASLEEP ON HIM PAY CLOSE ATTENTION 2 WHAT HE DOES.
2007-01-09 03:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the advice before mine, if you truely think that the counceleor would work and you can forgive him and be able to trust him go for, but i honestly think his reason was bull, he should have come to you first and never shouldnt confided in a stranger and she knew he married cause he stated she listened to the problem that you guys had, but if you think you can handle the healing process i wish you the best and you guys arein my prayers. God Bless!
2007-01-09 03:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by The Beautiful One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, she didn't change her number. Sure, she just HAPPENED to change it at that time, when you wanted him to call her. He has no intention of breaking things off, and things will only progress with her. Seen it too many times. IF he wasn't doing anything besides talking, he technically didn't cheat. What bothers me is that he is obviously lieing to you about how he "can't" call her because "her number changed". What a load of crap. Please tell me you don't believe him.
2007-01-09 03:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No amount of counseling will EVER help you forget his cheating. Counseling will help IF both of you want to work it out.
2007-01-09 03:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is sa completely personal decision.
what i would say is that everyone is entitled to one fu ck up. if he can be honest with you on every aspect of him talking to her i would say give him a chance.
2007-01-09 03:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by Tissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋