I want to attract decent, caring, educated and well established males for marriage purpose. Please help me what behaviour and style should i adopt.
2007-01-09 02:50:57 · 37 answers · asked by seema 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
be natural
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2007-01-12 15:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by sandeep k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck in finding one! There are not many out there. Just want to let you know that no one is perfect, so if you meet a nice man but he doesn't meet all your criteria, don't throw him out the door yet. Give him a chance. My best guess for you is to be yourself but act in a sophisticated manner. Don't act childish at all or that is what you will attract. Act decent, caring, educated, and well established, and that's what you will find! Don't rush on the marriage thing though quite yet. It is 2007, we wait a while now before we jump into that. You don't want to be a statistic. Good luck in finding a good guy!
2007-01-09 02:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to find men that are ready for marriage. Men unconciously start to look for a mate around 30-37 years of age. Men will marry whatever woman they are with whenever they are ready to settle down. It really has nothing to do with finding the right person. You can tell that men are looking for a mate when:
1) They aren't driving a sports car or spending thousands on stereo equipment or high ticket bachelor pad items
2) Aren't hanging out in bars
3) Live in a house - not an apartment
4) Have a steady job
When all those things are in place, men look to move to the next level. You don't need to change yourself, you just need to keep an eye out for the men in the "ready" category.
2007-01-09 03:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lilith 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When u say the man is decent well educated and well established, then your good behaviour and smile can attract that person. Try to understand more of that person, what he likes etc..
2007-01-09 05:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sandeep G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best behaviour or style u gotta adopt in order to make a guy maryy u is not to mention abt marriage at all coz a guy need 2 b understood a lot n loved a little..have fun makin ur guy dance to UR tune...GUD LUCK*
2007-01-12 05:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Nothing phony or played up to.
The most important part of finding a particular type of mate is to identify what you want and place yourself in environments that increase your chances of meeting them. If you are looking for Young Professionals go where Young Professionals go.
2007-01-09 02:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sounds like a desperate housewife. You will get married when you find the right one. You can not look for love. You find love. Love happens when you least expect. Marriage happens when you find someone that is truly committed to marry you. Be yourself. Do not pretend to be someone else. People can sense that.
2007-01-09 03:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by bbluckylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Males are attracted to females only because of their appearance in the first instance. Therefore you must devote time to improve your appearance- especially the important part of your body.Once a man is attracted to you then evaluate his qualities and then decide.
2007-01-10 20:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by KNOWALL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to respect yourself and love yourself for who YOU ARE, not for what you feel they want you to be. If you can't love yourself unconditionally then how can you expect a man to love you in the same respect?
You can attract them all you want, but you should want a marriage to last forever, and that involves being the person YOU want to be, not who you think they want you to be.
2007-01-09 03:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your own interests, and respect for yourself. Taking care of yourself physically and emotionally are attractive traits. You'll find that men will be drawn to you if you don't act too desperate, and show that you're enjoying your own life.
2007-01-13 02:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by ezpaced 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "The Rules" . It gives some great advise and guidelines for attracting the marrying kind.
2007-01-09 02:58:03 · answer #11 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋