In some families one child is loved and protected and supported, while the other is ignored, blamed and shamed. What do you think creates this phenonmena? Have you ever seen it or experienced it?
2007-01-09 02:41:19 · 7 answers · asked by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have experienced it and it sucks!! My brother was loved and cherished by my father, but my father hated me (he even told me once that he didnt love me) As far as knowing what cases it my father was an alcoholic, but i dont kow everyones case
2007-01-09 02:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ususally the circumstance surrounding the birth of the child that is disregarded has a major role in how they are treated. If there was a tragic death say, of the mother, when they were born, then that would give the father a motivation to blame her death on the child. And many feel that way. The one that is loved may be the one that is obedient or has a physical frailty that makes the parents more apt to cuddle or protect them more. Sometimes the youngest child has the best advantage to wrap the parents around their finger because they're the baby, or the only girl could wrap her father around her finger and be daddy's little girl. I have seen this too many times to count, and the thought that I might do it when I get married and have kids, sickens me. Lord help me to be just and fair!
2007-01-09 02:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by lady_lbrty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have experienced it all my life, the only reason that I can think of is maybe they feel some kind of guilt for something on the birth of that chosen child and it is their way of making up for it. I was not the chosen child and it made for a miserable childhood, but, I am a stronger person for it, took many years to get over but, I am over it now.
2007-01-09 02:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Urchin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't experienced it but I have seen it and I think if a parent can't love all their children equally they shouldn't be allowed to have children at all. You hit a nerve! This really pisses me off!
2007-01-09 02:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by crispcelerystick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he did not supply us options, then we doesn't extremely count number on him. many cases, we pick the incorrect ingredient, and he places stumbling blocks in our direction. we pick to do drugs and damage our body, and he would supply us an in intensity to lack of life journey to reveal us what we are doing incorrect. If we proceed to evade him, then sure, he punishes us like all good figure might want to.
2016-12-28 12:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens in most families. It's called favouritism.
2007-01-09 03:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i havent really experienced it .. sometimes i did feel my parents like my sibling more than they liked me but then again i think its my perspective cos my sibling used to think the other way ... so i feel its just the way v look at it ...
2007-01-09 02:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by edifiz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋