Too fast ejaculation - How to increase time for orgasm?

Question

During sex, my ejaculation happens within 15-20 seconds. My partner sometimes gets very frustated due to this and looses interest. I consulted a doctor few years back and he advised me to put force on front part of my penise when i feel i am going to ejaculate. But that advice is not useful at all. It's not easy to do this when a person is excited and specially when you need to do every 15-20 seconds. How to increase time for ejaculation/orgasm? I have seen in some videos people doing sex for half an hour without having orgasm. Is that possible?

Answer 1

Try a ring. They're quite effective.

Answer 2

At some time or other, most guys experience premature ejaculation, which means that they ejaculate before they want to. They can't control their response to the stimulation that triggers ejaculation. This is also called early ejaculation. Up to 35 percent of young men experience early ejaculation so often that they see it as a problem.

Being very excited, fear and anxiety about sex, alcohol and drug use, and depression may cause early ejaculation. Open communication with a partner about likes and dislikes, and paying attention to sensation — to slow down the process of getting to the point of ejaculatory inevitability — during sex play can help guys delay ejaculation.

Men who seek sex therapy for early ejaculation are taught the "squeeze technique." The partner brings the man to erection, but squeezes the penis just below the glans with thumb and forefinger just before the time when ejaculation would become inevitable. The partner applies pressure until the erection is reduced by 10-30 percent. The penis is released for about 30 seconds before it is brought to erection again. This procedure is repeated until the man can go for 15-20 minutes before ejaculating. When he can postpone ejaculation, he is allowed to have intercourse again.

Other men have tried Extended Pleasure condoms by Trojan or Permorax condoms by Durex. These condoms are coated with a mild anesthetic on the inside that desensitizes the penis and helps a guy last longer.

Answer 3

That video part is all crap. No body Can do it actually in front of so many lights glare, persons and camera. Shots are taken separately and are presented together to create a high expectations. But ejaculating out in 15 - 20 seconds do need correction. Concentrate more on foreplay and stop several times in between. Try to satisfy your partners (id she is a regular one) by masturbating her or some do suggest that try second time after the act and one may last longer this time. Alcohol only in moderation otherwise it does not increase the duration but only gives you a sense of increased duration.

Answer 4

First put the woman on top and slow down. Think about flat tires and jumping out of airplanes, anything that takes your mind off sex. practice this and in time you'll master it. I was the same way but after practiceing I can go 2 or 3 hrs. It's like you have total control.

Answer 5

Ok, Slow down to a school zone pace and drink a couple of beers before you perform. The alcohol will ihibit the excititory/ejaculatory center in your brain, but becareful, too much will cause a loss of erection.

Answer 6

You could try using a ring, you put it at the base of the penis and it's supposed to help hold off on ejaculating. Other then that, just jerk off alot to build stamina.

Answer 7

Change positions. Start with the woman on top. Think of something else while you are doing it. Meditate and practice yoga, it's all about controlling your body through your mind. Good luck!!

Answer 8

Its a very common problem in todays hectic senario. If you want you can contact me with all details of your problem to me at [e-mail] I am a consultant sexologist

Answer 9

on a serious note try more forplay on her part really focus on her you can also get a **** ring that works really well or you can get a pill from your Dr good luck

Answer 10

I think you are having sex too many times a day or masturbate excessively.