I'm turning 19 this year and I never had any boyfriend before. Sometime I just get jelous with girls who got lots of boyfriends. I just want a boyfriend. In fact, I had a crush on this guy and that he isn't the same race as mine. I don't mind having a boyfriend of the other race. The problem is that, I don't how the pour my feelings, telling him that I like him. I fear of rejection.
Maybe this is due to the fact that I'm suffering from low self- esteem. I'm 19 and I got a breast of an adolecent, flat like a surfboard. I ain't a talker, so this adds up to the problem. I've got a pimple face and this affects me. The guy I like is pretty cute. And I can't resist cute guys.
Now,how can I tell him that I liked him? He was from the same polytechnic as me and in fact he was my senoir back in high school and the thing is I didn't know that he existed back then.I just knew him randomly at friendster and I have added him.I don't know where to start. I don't know how to make friend w/ him
2007-01-09 01:15:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try hanging where he does, observe his interest and see if they click with yours. When you see him smile, you don't need to come out and tell him you like him, he will feel it. Be your self and don''t worry about making mistakes. Keep your self looking nice, drink plenty of water daily, keep away from the pop. GL
2007-01-09 01:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don´t worry. I was once like you. I had no breasts either, and I would have begged for a a boyfriend. He appeared when I least expected it and broke my heart too. But well that's another story.
You feel like you need a boyfriend so that you gain self confidence and feel pretty. I know the feeling. I would recommend you to see a dermatologist, it worked wonders for me. You have no idea how it is to stop hiding your face and look at people in the eye. It can change everything I assure you. And you know, not every top model has big breasts. We come in different sizes, and I´ve discovered that most guys like more the behind even if it´s tiny. You definitely have to work on your self confidence and then you will be able to talk to any guy you want. Get a treatment for your face and buy clothes and makeup that make you feel pretty. Sincerely.
2007-01-14 16:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by self destruct girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't ever had a boyfriend and I'm 19 too!! I don't think it's a problem though. I have hung out with many different types of people all my life.
Telling a guy you like him is always scary and I don't think it ever gets any easier.....but then again I have only told a few guys that I liked them so I don't really know. I don't really have self esteem issues either, people can take me as I am or leave me. I'm not changing for them.
But if you like a guy you should definately tell him how you feel especially if you know each other. You never know how someone is going to react when you tell them how you feel but you will never know unless you talk to them.
2007-01-16 06:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by LAW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, let me say that looks really are not everything...the fact that you have little breasts is not a big deal...as for the acne, not a big deal either PLUS you can work on clearing it up with pro-active or pills from a dermatologists... anyway, personality can go a long way. Some guys like quiet girls/shy girls. when you get to know someone...even when they are quiet , you come to find ...DiScOVer...that very cool person that they really are and are not sharing with everyone! (im sure there's more to you than meets the eye!) Be yourself, be nice and you will attract a good guy---maybe the one you like,,,maybe someone else just as good or even better. Just let it happen---Also make sure you are around people...in sports, classes, and misc activities where you can find friends with the same interests...friendships often develop into more:)
2007-01-13 05:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Waiting to Scream* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 36 dd's on my own could allure to adult men yet steer sparkling of those lol. you sound like a helpful woman and if someone extremely likes you its because of the guy you're literally not your actual visual allure, try basically talking to someone you want and allow them get to understand you, the more effective they get to understand the more effective they are going to like, verbal change is crucial device, you would possibly want to even try randomly e mailing someone on right here who has responded your question or one you've responded, good success :)))
2016-12-28 12:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i wouldn't be worried about a guy so young. and as for your self-esteem, it's probably not low. You just have to find it. you say you are shy, start talking a little more, smile, and stay positive it will all work out. oh and your boobs, well trust me you pay more attention than anyone else. Don't think about them. Because no one else is. And if they are you don't want them.
2007-01-16 14:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show the guy that you care about the same things he cares about. Become friends with him. The physical part will take care of itself if you have a good relationship.
2007-01-09 01:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anpadh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off if he is truly a man, he will not care about any of these things that aren't so bad. i didnt have my 1st boyfriend till i was 18/19. who cares. you have high standards, not just low self esteem. you cant be shyer then me and well ... you will do fine. if he doesn't like you, that is his problem, his loss. you deserve better anyways if a man didnt like you for who you were, not your outside.
2007-01-16 13:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me his details on friendster, I'll be happy to tell him anything you want me to. It'll be easy, don't worry I'll fix everything up.
2007-01-16 22:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by anthony_tr6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that....i'm 22 and i havent had a girlfriend...life sux.
2007-01-09 01:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋