Some people are telling me that I Am just in the next stage of love but I feel like I am falling out of love for some reason....What does the comfort stage of love feel like...Or if you dont know what does falling out of love feel like?
2007-01-09 00:52:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ah the comfort stage where you get comfy and take things for granted... Because you have got to a point where you know what a reaction is going to be, or you know they are always going to be there, or how they will react to things.... Whats for tea? what position sex will be in? Where you feel like you don't have to try anymore.... Sometimes I have felt like that in my realtionships and thought and felt like this, and my honest opinion would be that if you have got to a point where you feel you don't have to try anymore as much as you did, the little things like smelling of aftershave or opening a door for someone.... then you need to ask yourself is it because you are just at a point where you have got comfy or is it because something has died down and you ain't that happy anymore...... I read a great webpage about 5 mins ago about love.....And 9/10 for me it was that something really wasn't enough for this relationship. Not just on my part but on the other persons part too. If you are madly in love and couldn't imagine life without them then work at not taking them for granted, little things like notes, flowers, going up behind them kissing the bk of the neck, cuddles, and communication - address the way you feel with your partner......gd luck soldier on!!
2007-01-09 01:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Girl of Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has different stages and all of them can be enjoyed if you have commitment backing it up. The comfort stage is when you feel like best friends. You may not feel the overwhelming love you did when you first fell in love but it is a stage when you both are comfortable enough in the relationship to be friends and enjoy hanging out together. Falling out of love doesn't feel good but feels like maybe you are in the wrong place with the wrong person. There isn't the comfort level that should be there.I find that I fall in love with my wife over and over again.
2007-01-09 01:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋