Me and willis are very happy. we have been together for over 12 years. But latley he has been hanging around are friend Cindy. they have lots of Inside jokes and when im with them i dont have an idea what they are talking about. and he also seems to be alot happyer around her. I no i could ever love a woman the way i love men. but maybe willis is differnent ... im really scared and i need some good advice to keep me from exploding.
2007-01-09 00:47:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
um well he could be but u need more evidence before u jump to this conclusion, u could ask him, if uv been together that long then u must b able to ask such questions. do u know what he's doing when ur not together, does he have spare time to be cheating? maybe u could have a word with her about ur feeling left out yno let them no how u feel.
2007-01-09 00:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - you guys got to keep that kind of crap between you and when you can holler and scream without an audience. Its too easy to get all worked up and cut eachother down when all you need to do is get your crap in the open between you. After being together for 12 years I can't believe you have to air the dirty linen this way. You both seem like cool guys that need to kiss and make up before the damage gets too great.
2007-01-09 13:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Brent W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 12 years you two have been together, which is much longer than most. Sit down with him and talk things over. Everything will be OK. The two of you can feel free to open up to each other.
2007-01-09 10:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rissy, The best advice I can offer you is to gently broach the subject with him. Don't confront him with your suspicions and fears - rather bring it in as a joke. "Well you and Cindy seem to be getting on fine - if you don't like my cooking, move in with her! LOL!"
Check his reaction and take it from there. You know him better than any of us on here. DON'T keep this to yourself though, nagging fears in a relationship can be like cracks in a wall. The longer you leave them unattended, the more likely cracks will become chasms.
2007-01-09 09:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, rest assured its not a girl. ITS ME!!!! I'm sorry but I love willis and he loves me and we will make sweet romance forever.
Question answered.
2007-01-09 10:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be cheating on you with his
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2007-01-09 09:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, Willis is pissed............!
2007-01-09 09:05:04 · answer #7 · answered by buldawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋