2007-01-09 00:47:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he dumped me a week a go coz we had one bad week out of 8 months, befre the arguement he said he was so happy but the arguement spiralled just wondering if in time he will realise what he had before he got in the mood. i think he wasnt used to the confrontation and didnt like it.
2007-01-09 00:58:32 · update #1
when it comes to affairs of the heart, it is the most true trueism ever.
2007-01-09 00:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's very true. Though a lot don't realise immediately it may take a few weeks or a month for someone to realise what they had was so good compared to what they have now after the person has left.
2007-01-09 08:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he need the confrontation as an excuse to leave!
It all depends on the relationship itself and how we are affected by what we find ourselves within (it). If we experience the relationship as a part of our self, if we see it as a part of our life, and then we no longer have it, then the chances are that 'reflection' will create a focus for our minds eye and a better understanding - and maybe a sense of loss = over its value.
Best of luck.
Sash.
2007-01-09 11:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true in case you are not careful. If you love some one, won't approach the person and next time he/she is gone, it hits hard and realize the mistake. On other occasions, it takes some time maybe days to realize what went wrong. Remember what ever hurts your heart is realized immediately.
2007-01-09 08:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the most part yes. My fiance and I had broken up for about a week with no intention of ever talking to me again but when his mom suddenly died he realized that he didn't want to lose me. So in love yes in life yes in materialistic crap no!
2007-01-09 08:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kat A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all the time. It is possible. If your wise you'll realise what you have before you let it slip away from your grasp
2007-01-09 08:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Citizen Ted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we tend to romanticise what we had when it's gone. The reality is, we're gone for a reason and that reason still exists.
2007-01-09 08:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very very true people take advantage of it and think stuff will always be there but in the end its not and then they start missing and worring about it.
2007-01-09 08:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by care_bear_sugar_princess_hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only the best bits!!! once its gone you realise how much you hated the bad bits. Which does one prefer?
2007-01-09 08:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by placidma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes got issues he does'nt want to deal with by the sound of it, i take it he is his own man. does as he pleases. maybe he does'nt want to be with you anymore, you wont know untill you ask and get closure. if he does'nt love you then you've lost nothing and kept your self respect. he walked out on you then let him keep walking.
2007-01-09 11:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As Paddy said waking up from his operation "circumcision, that was the word, not castration"
2007-01-09 08:51:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋