Ive read many articles about numbing creams for your member. I thinks its not practical due to the fact that the woman gets numb too and its counterproductive. My question: Is there some way that by applying these benzocaine type numbing products on a daily basis; maybe multiple times a day could eventually permanently desensitize your member so the applications wouldn't be needed as much?? and thus solving your problems??
2007-01-09 00:22:37 · 3 answers · asked by justin m 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I seriously doubt overuse of the product would cause permanent desensitization of your member.
Honestly, if you masturbate excessively over a long time period, it has been known to desensitize your penis somewhat.
2007-01-09 00:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you referring to premature ejaculation? If so you may want to try a "p" = male organ ring.Not sure what words I can put in the chat :) You can get them at any adult novelty store, or on-line. If your worried about her pleasure (and yours), my advise, relax. My husband also had this all to common problem. He would get so hurt and frustrated he would just give up and call the whole thing off. (he was embarrassed). You and your partner need to know you CAN beat this. But until you do, try a few tricks. Foreplay goes a loooooooong way in satisfying her needs, use hands, toys, oral, whatever it takes. Let her play as well, yes you may climax but by the time you have taken care of what she needs your erection will be back. Take your time it's not a race and she'll thank you for it.:) Play throughout the day if possible, (my husband came home for lunch) wink wink. We would cuddle on the couch before bed, (under a blanket as we had children) cant get to wild but she can play (hands and fingers) so can you. When children got older we had to get a bit more creative lol. Send them to a neighbors to play for a while. (if there's children in the picture) if not have a ball. Making love with someone you deeply love and care for is by far the most rewarding thing two people can share, that and children. Best of luck to you both, take your time relax and KNOW you are NOT alone.
2007-01-09 01:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,
Premature ejaculation can be cured with natural methods. One really good one you can follow is http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=565
When a man is suffering from premature ejaculation, he is often climaxing before his partner and in the case of most men it is difficult if not impossible for them to continue intercourse after ejaculating. That’s because chemicals are released when a man ejaculates and these are the same chemicals that make a person feel sleepy and/or not aroused. It’s not that they have suddenly lost interest; just their brain is telling them that the sex is over. This effect is more prominent after intercourse than after masturbation because intercourse actually causes four times more of these chemicals to be released. If premature ejaculation occurs frequently, it can lead to embarrassment for the man and sexual frustration for both partners.
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2014-09-11 04:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-21 11:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that you should use it at all if you really want to use it than go for it but ask your gf (if you have one) first and see what she says. after all it has to go in her too.
2007-01-09 00:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋