i found out through other means, my partner admitted they slept over but it is someone i don't like and trust very much.
2007-01-09 00:00:46 · 15 answers · asked by s_arcia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I could not trust him again, it happened to me, and my ex denied being with her, but I didn't believe him, why have her in our bedroom if they weren't doing anything, I stayed with him for two years after, but could never put my trust in him again.
2007-01-09 00:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by cheeky_lil_pixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would re-examine my partner's relationship with the other person an make sure that it didnt mean anything and he/she was just helping someone in desperate times. If it did mean anythingand that they had some thing going, then I would break up with my partner at once as there would be no trust left and a relationship without trust doesnt survive much long.
2007-01-09 00:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by sudheesh s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a rule that my partner knows about: If I ever learn of even the slightest hint of impropriety, our relationship is over.
If this was our relationship, he would be gone from my life! There are no "sleepovers" with the opposite sex. And there is no "hiding" of anything from me. 2 strikes right there. Damage is done. Relationship is over.
2007-01-09 00:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.That would not go over with me!! I would be more comfortable with it if he were up front and honest with me, and it were someone we both tolerated! I would talk to my partner about it and let that person know that was unacceptable with me! Make it very clear that this cannot happen again and if it does, there will be consequences.
2007-01-09 00:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by Tami H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would beat the hell out of my partner and the person that slept over!
2007-01-09 00:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ctahysi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big problem. If they had nothing to hide, you would have been told. Your partner should know how you feel about this individual - and respect your feelings.
2007-01-09 00:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very upset and break it off.Before I did that I would probably return the favor,and host my own sleepover.
2007-01-09 00:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was my man who did this, I'd tell him to hit the door & then hand him the baggy with his **** in it. NO WAY is anybody stayin over with my man for any reason.
2007-01-09 00:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is someone I don't know: he is in trouble.
But if it is one of his friends that I know, well, no big deal. I know all his friends, including his women friends. And they are my friends too!
2007-01-09 00:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by MM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats cheating even if there is nothing sexual about that sleepover its cheating because theyre
hiding it from you
2007-01-09 00:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋