Can someone help????

Question

Can someone help me sort out my feelings plsssss???
well he's in the same class as me and is currently sitting right beside me and we are pretty good friends,we flirt quite a lot,i don't know but just recently,i caught him staring at me quite a lot,he was sitting beside me so occasionally,he'll just turn and look at me and then turn back again,and there was once when i told him i wanted to go catch a movie,he said "ok,ask me along!" i mean why can't HE ask me instead of having me to ask him to the movies??and he's got this habit of calling my name and then flashing me that wide grin of his and i was telling one of my pal that a guy asked me out but not sure if i shd go & when he heard that,he didn't utter a single word i got this feeling that he fancies me but then again,he tells me about the girls he likes and using his cell in class doing god knows what,perhaps texting other girls?i don know how i'm feeling right now no romantic feelings but i feel weird,confused.

and also he used to wait for me then we'll go for lectures but now that i got closer to antoher guy and he knows that,he no longer waits for me but dashes out of class with his friend as soon as the bell rings and my friend said he's quite a flirt so i was wondering if he's flirting with me for the thrill of it or he really likes me,i doubt i have any romantic feelings towards him but somehow i just feel the knot in my heart which i really wanna untie..i don't wanna ask him about it cause i don't wanna appear to be too presumptuous..

Answer 1

he's interested but scared if he tells u he losses u . and now ur with someone else and he thinks he lost u.

Answer 2

Well I would say work out how you feel towards him. Sounds from what you have written that you don't have romantic feelings but maybe you like the attention from him? I think we are all guilty of that sometimes and then we confuse the feeling of being special to someone and them noticing us with how we feel beneath it all.

I'm not surprised you feel weird and the confusion can lead to the knot in your stomach. Take a few deep breaths, work out what you want from him (if anything) and then go for that. If you like him get to know him better and see how it goes, if not then try to stay calm and just be yourself and you should feel less confused having made a decision.

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Answer 3

The guy is to proud to go down from the tree .. but if u make sure u will not do his job ( inviting him anywhere ) , at the end he will give up and come on u , don't worry .. its all about there games , guys talk to eachother and he don't want to look like a pussy in front of his friends , he wants to show how tough is he , and how important he is making girls like u chase him !
Dont let him play u , be smart and u play him ;)
Good luck !

Answer 4

He likes u but is probably afraid to tell you. If you like him the same way then ask him out if not then just remain friends. Not all guys will ask a girl to the movies b/c they are afraid of getting shut down. Just b/c he talks about the other girls he likes doesn't mean that he doesn't like u. He's just afraid to tell you.

Answer 5

I CAN HELP...

FIRST OFF, YES HE WAS & MAYBE STILL IS INTERESTED IN U...

THIS SAME KIND OF THING HAPPENED TO ME YEARS AGO..
I GREW UP IN A NEIGHBORHOOD MOSTLY GUYS AND WE WERE ALL GOOD FRIENDS...

WELL THINGS GOT A LITTLE WEIRD ALSO WITH ME & ONE OF THEM.. IT WAS SO OBVIOUS THAT WE REALLY CARED ABOUT EACH OTHER ALOT TO EVERYBODY BUT US...

WE DATED FOR ABOUT NINE MONTHS OUR SR. YR OF HS
AND THEN HE GOT ALL WIERD & JEALOUS ON ME..

OF COURSE, WE ENDED BREAKING UP AND RUINING AN OTHERWISE PERFECT FRIENDSHIP.. THAT UNFORTUNATELY AFTER TWO DECADES HAS NOT BEEN MENDED.. ITS A SAD STORY..

SO SORT OUT YOUR FEELINGS, AND GO FROM THERE..

I WISH THE BEST OF LUCK TO YOU ON THIS..

GOOD FRIENDS THAT LAST ARE HARD TO FIND.

JUST MAKE SURE WHETHER OR NOT YOU WANT MORE THAN FRIENDSHIP OUT OF THIS.