If you have never bean loved.?

Question

How can you love others and your self,and know when you are loved, or form a relationship, ect. At 67 years of age I still don't know. This has doged me all my life and still dos to this day. yours in J.C. peter william lack. Thank in addvance.

Answer 1

when you feel at ease with those around you and feel like you can't be happy without them, then you are loved.
You don't have to be told to know that you are loved and there are so many kinds of love... friends that appreciate you love you, neighbours that say hi with a smile kind of love you, all those people answering your questions positively sort of love you too :-)
if you are unsure about loving people, try start with a puppy, it'll help you express your feelings and know what it is like to be really loved by a living thing. :-)
you still have many years ahead so grab every single minute and send love around you, that's the way to get it back.

Answer 2

You sign yourself, 'Yours in JC' from which I assume that you are a Christian.
Remember that He loves you.
Someone very wisely said that you should not worry about if you love people....just behave towards them as if you did and you will discover that you DO!

PS You may need a lot more reassurance than can be given in this way. Why not seek out a local minister.
If you let me have your address (in confidence..,.and just the town will do) I may be able to direct you.

Answer 3

You know when you are loved when people tell you and the way they make you feel. They make you feel special and protected like you always have some one there for you. People have a lot of love inside them its just finding the right person to gove it too and one day everyone will find that person and you will want to make them feel special aswell. xx

Answer 4

Unfortunately i do not know either but your message will give others hope.I know that when you experience it it is the best thing ever though and if you ever feel sad after talking to someone it's not love.