2007-01-08 23:30:56 · 46 answers · asked by alexis christian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't know how i fell and you have no idea what i've been through. the stupid thing is that it is not even me who started it. I'm not denying liability. I just want to do the right thing. The reason i want to tell her is because i'm pregnant you fool.
2007-01-09 00:04:01 · update #1
You're NO Best friend. Obviously he hasn't chosen to leave her for you so I guess that you want to tell her in order to push the issue. Go ahead. She deserves better than the both of you and this will free her up to take him for every penny and find someone who will not abuse her trust, and love.
2007-01-08 23:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest not listening to any, except maybe a couple of these replies. No one knows what they're talking about cause they haven't been there. Only thing I can HIGHLY suggest is NOT opening your mouth. Why ruin two whole families, his and hers, over an accident like this ? Sure....you're pregnant. You and he knew it was a risk. But now comes the tough part - dealing with it. Yes, you're life is now going to change dramatically. But you can NOT go back and ruin his and her whole families over this. You may feel like it's his fault, but you can not ruin this marriage. The ultimate secret must be left a secret. You didn't mention if you were married or not, but if not, the obvious answer would be to blame it on someone else, keep the secret to yourself and end the affair. If you are, God help ya - that's gonna be a toughy. Well regardless, maybe blame it on a one nighter somewhere, someday, sometime...but don't ruin the marriage ! PS....It's going to be tough keeping the little one away from your best friend. I hope it resembles you a lot more than he ! Best of luck with everything.
2007-01-09 01:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Lexington 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What, you should be ashamed of yourself, you are no best friend! And if you were really a best friend you would'nt have done it in the first place. If you want to stay friends with her then don't tell her, but you'll live with the guilty concience everytime you see her, and stop the affair right away.
I don't think she'll wanty to be friends with you after that!
2007-01-08 23:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow ... what do you do to your enemys girl??
Well, I think you should stop the affair immediately.
If you tell her, she will be losing you and her husband, poor woman!
If you and her husband are serious about eachother then I suggest that you tell him to finish with her, you can then be there for her like a best friend should, and then see what the future brings with your relationship.
He refuses to do finish with her, well then you know that his using you to get rid of his dirty water love.
The thing is sweetie, Women cheat on their man becoz they are not getting something from the relationship (i.e. Love, tenderness, sex, conversation) and Men cheat coz they get the opportunity too, (i.e. a female of the species flurts with him and let him know shes up for it) Men have a need to spread them selves around, to mate to sow their seed.
You could end up losing both of them, as it all may come out that you nobbing her husband, and she may forgive him.
But you my dear will never be forgiven.
Get out now before you get labelled.
Big Smiles
x
2007-01-08 23:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a trick question or are you really serious?
You are either lacking in 'gray matter' or are actively seeking trouble.
Why are you having an affair with your best friends husband? Best friends DO NOT treat their best friends in such a manner. Do you really think so little of her that you have to go and stab her in the back?
2007-01-08 23:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Larry F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow - form reading the other answers, you are not the most popular person on yahoo answers today!
Never mind telling her, what are you going to do with the baby? whose going to be the father....how will you support it? so many questions....
you're a witch of a friend. He started it - did he tie you down and have sex with you, cuz unless he forced you to then you had the opportunity to say no and walk away. Terrible. You are a home wrecker. You're best friends home wrecker at that. With friends like you who needs enemies...
2007-01-09 04:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by efil_4_msdb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r out of your mind do u knw that ppl sometimes r killed over things like this. I could c if u didnt knw this scumbag but u knw he is married so what ever happens to u i just hope its quick. I dont think u should tell her , I think u should just move far far away and take that to the grave with u. Sounds like some ol Jerry Springer stuff
2007-01-08 23:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by KB48 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After this you are still referring to her as you "Best Friend?" How can you do this? You are not a friend! How can you even talk to your friend? I would stop having the affair and beg for forgiveness from your friend. Just remember, men can come and go, but true friends are forever. A good friend is hard to come by and right now you are not being a friend at all. Shame on you!!!
2007-01-08 23:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by godbeyn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What type of best friend would do this to someone?
I personally think that you should tell her, and cut off all ties with her husband. As well as be prepared to find a new best friend.
2007-01-08 23:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are a best friend, because friends dont do things like that in fact you are nothing but disrespectful towards your friend. I suggest you get out of her life and her husbands lives. Have you no shame. What you are sowing now you are going to reap. The wheels turn on people like you. You are nothing but a tramp
2007-01-08 23:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋