This might sound corny, but I met my husband when I was working at a gas station. At the time, I was going through a divorce from a man that cheated and abused me. I was nervous about letting anyone close to my heart or I wasn't going to let anyone get close to me because I didn't want to get hurt again. This man was very understanding and was the shoulder I cried on. I went through a depression that caused me to lose a lot of weight (301 to 180) in less than 6 months. He was there for me and my two kids and never asked for anything in return. After seven years later, and two more kids, he is still here and making us happier everyday. I believe that love is the way someone makes you feel. If you feel secure, loved, etc. you are with the right person. I can't imagine not being with my husband. He is my everything. He is my soul mate. It took me a little time to allow my feelings I had for him to show because of the fear of being hurt, but I am glad I did. We have been together 7 years today and going strong. I wouldn't want my life any other way.
2007-01-08 23:54:59
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answered by godbeyn 2
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The spirit of love dies when one cannot compromise. Marriage is a work of two people, and a give and take relationship.
I cannot say a lot of things, mainly because i'm married for only more than a year. But i've seen my parents, and they're magnificent. i discovered three things that kept them for so long
1. respect
2. compromise
3. communication
You can't go wrong.
2007-01-08 23:32:51
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answered by reijene 2
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ppl get married for all kinds of WRONG reasons and sometimes they think they are in love when its not
it took me 20+ yrs but i found true love and all i can say is WOW
not what i have ever felt before
i get butterflies when he walks in a room or i look into his eyes
my breath is taken away when i hear his voice on the phone
i feel the entire world is perfect when i am in his arms
we have our differences and we argue once in a while but we cant stay angry at each other for long because we both have a great sence of humor
2007-01-08 23:29:58
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answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6
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we dont no exactly actually understand so to speak on what ur really asking of how long true love should last but we started talking in august 2006 and started dating in sepetember 2006 and married in december 2006 and yes we no this is only january 2007 but with what we have in common and the communcation and the trust we have in each other we want to belive that our true love with last forever
2007-01-08 23:30:08
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answered by Angie 3
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true love happens all the time it just never lasts very long, sad but true it barely ever happens like the movies, google it and u might find those little old couples who were first loves and stuck together 60 yrs, sounds cool but 60 yrs with the same person! i couldnt stand it.
2007-01-08 23:27:22
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answered by Anonymous
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My mom made me marry my bf when i was 17, i loved him but our marriage was rocky. We argued, had knockdown drag outs. After 10 yrs we had a son and calmed down. A few yrs later he began working more & ignoring us ...I cried & begged him to show us love. He said I am who I am DEAL with it. So i did, i left him for another man . i still loved my husband but did what i had to do. He cried,begged & swore he'd change. after 3 months i couldnt take being w/o him so i went back.I've been back 2 yrs and we are very happy. He cherishes me & our son. True love does exist.
2007-01-08 23:32:25
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answered by earthangel_candy 4
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true love lies interior the attention of the beholder and as you realize each and every person around us sees it in yet otherwise for them. human beings exchange on a regular foundation and normally out advance one yet yet another and emotions can replace. usually what we've faith as love can get under pressure with being hooked on any individual and final in a secure zone with them because of the undeniable fact that it makes us uncomfortable to alter it. in spite of the two one among you're doing right here it does no longer seem to be working and regularly loving any individual does no longer advise you ought to bypass on with them the final way concerns are. If 2 persons can no longer restoration what's mistaken then how can true love very final forever? a character can replace and walk away yet in any respect circumstances look after a concentrated region for you of their coronary heart for the reason that issues interfere and make you spot one yet another yet otherwise finally. i've got faith that true love is a dedication to appreciate one yet another and looking out out a thank you to no longer go away in view which you're taking the super with the risky. whilst it is correct love you totally draw close sufficient to opt to replace concerns for the better and no longer walk away for the reason which you ought to artwork on preserving that love alive or it dies.
2016-10-06 21:28:48
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answered by ? 4
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First please tell what "Love" means to you, then only we can answer your query But I can tell you that Love between husband and wife is an invisible bond of concern, happiness and mutual devotion with responsibility which exists in spite of differences in taste, opinion and likes and dislikes. Yes Love grows with age and time. There is nothing called True or False in Love.
2007-01-08 23:34:57
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answered by Brahmanyan 5
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well it only last long if the comunication is good.If both can trust eachother and be honest.True Love is very hard to find but if you got it then keep it and hold it.And it rare becuase alot of people do play games with others feelings and some of them only cares about themself first :)
2007-01-08 23:35:38
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answered by sweety4live2000 3
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