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i have known a group of ppl that I'll call "friends". depending on my mood is how i'll talk. i remember there were times where i was feeling uncomfortable so when i would greet them I would give them a very "short and quick 'hi' " to the group, instead of going around saying, "hello, x", "hello, y". I have done this "short 'hi' " a few times, anyways, it's stuck. so everytime i'm in the room they constantly repeat it over and over again. when we go into a chat room they repeat it. they repeat other stuff that I say in a mocking way. socially, i stand out better than them cuz i'm more personable, but I find it utterly annoying that they continue to sit there at a table and say things that I type in response to them, such as "omg, oh ok, o i c, lol ". it's everytime i see them which is on a weekly basis and chatting is also on a weekly basis. let me know what you all think. also, i'm 25, they are older (a couple of years older) and drink a lot lol.

2007-01-08 23:18:58 · 2 answers · asked by lookingforanswersandquestions 4 in Family & Relationships Friends

what makes me more and more uncomfortable is that they bash another guy in the group behind his back yet theyare moving in with him and hang out with him all the time.

2007-01-08 23:19:51 · update #1

also, i haven't seen them in about a month, cuz i'm just iffy about all of them, but i do chat with them as a group and they still continue copying off of me.

2007-01-08 23:27:03 · update #2

2 answers

They are called fair-weather friends. As long as you are giving them what they want, they will treat you fine. I feel you are a MUCH better person and you need to first tell the guy they bash to run, and then get away from them yourself. Do not let them bring you down to their LOW level of functioning!

2007-01-08 23:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by daleraem 1 · 0 0

Why are you hanging out with them? If they talk about someone behind his/her back, they are most likely doing the same behind your back.

Try to meet ofther people.

2007-01-09 07:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by David G 6 · 0 0

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