What in the Hell is wrong with some females in their young teen life to get pregnant twice before reaching 18 yrs of age...damn?
2007-01-08 22:52:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I apologze I just got hte email. I'm really really pissed off right now. I logging off.
2007-01-08 22:59:42 · update #1
This is her parent's responsibility not yours. I realize the situation is upsetting you but let her parents deal with it.
For some reason, young girls feel they need someone to love them (because they don't feel this from their own parents) and having a baby is the way to do it or they're just too immature to tell the boys NO!
She definately has no respect for herself otherwise this would not be happening to her and the boys have no respect for her.
If her parents would have instilled in her the respect she should have had then she would not have let any boy disrespect her.
Having a child is a lot of work. Who helps her with the first one...
Who ever is helping her definately doesn't mind doing it - which is not the right signal to be giving her. If she's given the first one up, for adoption, and plans on doing the same with the next one then she needs some serious counseling.
Let her parents know of your concerns and ask why they are allowing this. Good luck!
2007-01-09 05:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a client like you. (And for all the people out there this was just her decision not mine im just relying the story) The daughter was 14 when she had her first baby (dad was 20) mom was trememdously pissed. So when it came time to deliver the mother of the 14 year old said no drugs she does this naturally. And she did and felt everything and now the 17 year old goes around talking about being a teenage mom and how hard it was and is but she says that those hours of labour stick with her everyday. Mom doesnt help either she made her get a job and go to night school etc.
2007-01-09 10:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by lilly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My cousin got pregnant at 16 then again at 18, so I know how you feel. It is frustrating but it's all about the parenting. My aunt neglects to look after her kids. Now her younger daughter is 14 years old and we hope she isn't headed down the same road. The worst part is you can't tell someone how to parent their kids without them getting offended. It really does suck. I think parents need to get involved and in control of their teens' life
2007-01-09 08:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by Princesa2dy4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a idiot to me who perhaps needs to go seek counciling.
Who is supporting these children? I really doubt she is.
Her parents need to drag her to a clinic and force her to get a BC shot so she can not get pregnant, obviously the moron did not learn her lesson the first time.
I got pregnant at 16 and had a baby at 17 and I did not have sex for over a year because I was so afraid I would get pregnant again
2007-01-09 14:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gross. Someone should charge the father with statutory rape if he is over 18. Now is the time to kick her out and make her realize that she cannot afford a child. If she is smart at all (of course, doesn't sound like she is) she will realize she shouldn't be having children and will give it up for adoption.
2007-01-09 13:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think alot of teens these days don't feel loved or they want attention. They feel that a baby will give them that attention or the love they feel is missing will some how magically appear in the form of a needy infant.
2007-01-09 13:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by ck_scorpio40 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think alot of teens these days don't feel loved or they want attention. They feel that a baby will give them that attention or the love they feel is missing will some how magically appear in the form of a needy infant.
2007-01-09 09:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is talk to your niece. Put her on birth control, or go talk to a doctor. I know how it is to have children because my sisters and brothers have alto of children. Where are her parents? Look at the environment she is in. Is it a good environment? Maybe not.
2007-01-09 08:16:06 · answer #8 · answered by Sereatta Brown 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mom not being home raising her kids. Other classmates having babies, or pregnant. Co-ed schools. Sex ed classes which don't do any good at all. Parents not talking with their kids about sex before junior high.
2007-01-09 12:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some teens just like having sex at there age. Maybe she wants to get on welfare. She might need the money or food stamps to survive.
2007-01-09 16:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by wetcat2009 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋