My boyfriend came over and I told him i didnt want to have sex. But he tried it with me. He put his penis in me. But for only like 2 seconds before i realized what was happening. He wasn't in very deep. But I'm scared I might be pregnant. My stomache is upset, but it might be just because I'm so upset about this.
2007-01-08 22:50:20 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There may have been some pre-come on his pennis already so there is a very slim chance but........your probably making yourself sick. If you are going to have sex please use a condom, if this boy tried to have sex with you when you said no that is rape. It dosn't have to be a stranger to be rape the most common form of rape is called date rape and happens when the girl knows the boy (even boyfriends) and has said no. No means no......Don't let him hassle you into sex with him only do it if your into it. I'm sure your not pregnant, it's not that easy to get pregnant, but it can happen. Try to stopp worring, and dump the bastard that wont listen to what YOU want.
2007-01-08 23:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by alexrichardson4u5h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, #1, to all the people screaming rape...
for her to have his penis in her in the first place, her clothes had to be off.... if her clothes were off, then that word "No" doesn't mean sh* t in court.
Secondly, girl, wake up. don't say "I didn't want to" and then tell us, "only like 2 seconds before i realized what was happening." Cause there was probably at least 10 minutes of you "realizing what was happening" while you pulled your pants down.
Finally...... if you're scared you could be pregnant, then quit having sex. You don't sound mature enough to be having sex in the first place.
Get on birth control, cause that's all the world needs is more children having children who can't even take care of themselves.
And learn how to use a condom. EVERY TIME. I don't care if the guy says "But I love you...." or "I don't like the way it feels." Tell him he can either feel it with a condom or he can not feel it at all....
Better yet, refer back to me saying, "quit having sex."
I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just trying to help you make better decisions......
2007-01-12 22:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Bttrflai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, dump your creepo bf. If he had ANY respect for you what so ever he wouldn't have gone that far with you in the first place. There is a slight chance that you could be pregnant cause there is what is called "Pre ***" that comes out of a man's penis before he ejaculates. Wait until your period should come, and if it doesn't, then take a test. Please realize tho that being upset and worried about it can cause your period to be late. All my luck, to you, honey, and DUMP HIM!
2007-01-09 08:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by zoe and skylar's mommy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the chances of you being pregnant are slim but it is possible. you should go to planned parenthood and get the morning after pill, and do it now cuz you only have 72 hours after sex to take it or else it will be too late. oh and break up with him, he obviously cant take no for an answer and he doesn't respect or love you
2007-01-09 09:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia's Mama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like most of the answers on this page I think you should drop him. He obviously has no respect for you physically & emotionally & he will try again & act like the conquering hero to his mates. Give him a dictionary to look up the meaning no. Hopefully he can read & then maybe he'll understand.
PS:Unlikely for you to be pregnant. See your GP if you are really worried.
2007-01-10 07:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Vera K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your chances of being pregnant are slim if it was for just a short time and if your too worried about it if it happened within 72 hours get the morning after pill ie emergency pill
the sooner it's taken the better no later than 72 hours
2007-01-09 06:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by mothermayc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of that loser boyfriend of yours. You said NO. What he did is essentially RAPE.
Anyway, most likelly you are not pregnant, but there is still a chance. Your stomach would not be upset because of pregnancy this soon. So most likely it is nerves.
2007-01-09 07:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"But for only like 2 seconds before i realized what was happening."
how did you not know he stuck his penis in you? your boyfriend is an ass if you said no and he did it anyways.. if it was only for a second i wouldnt worry about it
2007-01-09 16:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by JennaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should dump the bf because you said no and he still had sex with you, that is considered rape.
2007-01-09 20:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by luvmyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are extremely unlikely to be pregnant.
However you have found out one very important thing: your boyfriend is an idiot who cannot be trusted. Get rid of him now.
2007-01-09 07:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by _Jess_ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋