i was trying for about 1 year to get pregnant and had 1 depo shot cos i couldn't handle the let downs anymore but made a rash decision and now want a baby again it's been 2 moths and i have all the signs of pregnany but no baby in sight have 1 son to another man and had 2 partners since and no luck of a child i refuse to marry this partner if i can't have anymore kids as he has none am i being rash or will a baby come soon
anyone with any help please
2007-01-08 22:48:57 · 6 answers · asked by mothermayc 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
wow not only are you sky rocketing the risks of HIV, and other STDS you are probably putting torment on both your son and the baby you are trying to concieve, by going from guy to guy trying to get pregnant. I think you have some moral as well as maturity issues to solve before you even think about having another child.
The depo shot is birth control, why the hell would you use birth control while trying to get pregnant?
Another thing. You really should learn how to spell, espically if you think you want another child. Your question was very hard to understand , I dont even know if I got out of what what you really ment.
2007-01-08 22:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by J. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to hurt your feelings but maybe subconsciously you are not getting pregnant because you need to get you own life in order, you need to be in a committed relationship. decide which partner you want to be with or is it whomever gets you pregnant first? I think that you are looking for comfort in the bond of a baby? put all of this attention into your son you do have and be thankful to God that you have a child and love that little boy with all your heart, you sound as if you are still young, just relax and enjoy life, the babies will come. I do believe God only sends them to us when we are ready to receive them. Best wishes just relax if the guy loves you and wants to marry you and he loves your son, RELAX and live your life and enjoy each other. Think of the blessings you have not what you want.
2007-01-09 07:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women get pregnant right off the depo shot and some have to go to a specialist to get pregnant.
The shot runs three months, so three months after the shot you can get pregnant at any time.
2007-01-09 20:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're only willing to marry this guy if he can get you pregnant then you should not be getting married anyways. And you only tried for a year? That's not really very long. Do us all a favor and don't try to get pregnant until you're a bit more mature. You think jumping from man to man trying to get pregnant is a healthy environment for your son?
2007-01-09 08:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs_M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are trying to hard. Just relax and let it happen. stressing over it can hinder the proces. as to the partner it's his decision too, he loves u and may not care if u cant have kids.
2007-01-09 07:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i been trying to have a baby to and i was on depo. there something about that shot they didt tell us, after we take it we will never havea kid agian
2007-01-09 09:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by lil_one_penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋