i have been married since a year but iam still a virgin. i love my hubby, but i dont like intercourse. what should i do so that i get a baby as i love babies. i dont enjoy his forwards for sex and i oppose with full strngth once my hubby tries to do it. should i consult a psychiatrist or a gynacologist? my hubby is goodlooking and i dont have any affairs that is preventing me from it, but i know i dont enjoy sex, its a big tension for me. please help.
2007-01-08 22:37:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
why dont u first sit back n think bout the reason u dont like intercourse?does it look scary to u? u also say that u love ur hubby but dont like his overtures!!! well babe.how long do u think ur hubby can go without sex????? if ur not willing to do it,its pretty obvious that he will start looking elsewhere for a physical outlet.will u still love him for it or will u turn a blind eye to it? it is a humans basic n antural instinct to procreate and have sex....u may need 2 consult a psychiatrist to finda mental cure for ur problem and after that u may need to take medica help.u could also artificially get ur hymen teared which will thereby help u in having painless physical intercourse.last but not the least are the two options of artificial insemination and surrogate mothers.how prepared are u to accept someone else's child as ur own? how long will u shy away from sex?and also how long will ur husband keep quiet about ur attitude to sex.be thankful that u have such a loving husband who isnt insisting on screwing u inspite of a year of marriage.good luck.
2007-01-08 22:59:47 · answer #1 · answered by nishap 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a therapist quickly. Once you clear up your sex hang ups then talk about having kids.
Your hubby is not going to stick around very long in a sexless relationship. Unless your living on an island with no other women around. Then you will have children and no hubby.
If you insist on having kids without sex. See a fertility doctor. They can do artificial insemination. But why pay that extra money when you can do it on your own with a willing partner?
2007-01-09 01:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your still a virgin how do you know you don't like sex your hubby seens to love you cos honestly what guy would be married for a year and not yet had sex with his bride
but no sex means no baby and they are the best thing in the world
2007-01-08 23:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by mothermayc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just magically appear a baby to yourself. If you want a baby you need to have sex, unless you adopt or get someone to be a surrogate mother to a baby.
And I hope you don't mind me asking but how do you know you don't enjoy sex if you are still a virgin? If you're still a virgin you obviously haven't had sex before so how do you know what its like?
2007-01-08 22:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No sex, no babies!
Besides for how long do you think your spouse can take that?!
You need professional psychological help. Paying some visits to a sexologist could be worth too.
I personally think you are just afraid or have some misconceptions about making sex. Remember misconceptions are one's worst ennemy: they tend to became a part of that person.
2007-01-08 22:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Emil Alexandrescu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have sex with him to make a baby - check the internet for more information or go and see you Dr. Otherwise it's artificial insemination or adopt.
2007-01-08 22:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you do not want to have sex with your husband to get pregnant, and you seriously want to have a baby, there are safe ways like IUI (intrauterine insemination), where they will take his sperm and inject it into your cervix to try and concieve.
Yes you should talk with your gyno and see the options there are.
2007-01-08 22:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by J. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋