Porn addict?

Question

I was reading one of the post about a woman whos husband lied about looking at porn and she is really upset about it , my question is WHY. Porn isnt cheating its a form of release, if u knw what i mean. Sometimes watchin it with your spouse is a a turn on. I dont understand dudes that have a collection of porn that is just crazy hahahaha. So how many ladies have watched porn with spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend heheehe

Answer 1

I AGREE WITH YOU TO A CERTAIN EXTENT. WATCHING PORN IS NOT CHEATING. MOST MEN FIND IT A BIG TURN ON. SOME WOMEN ALSO. MY HUSBAND AND I WATCH PORN TOGETHER AND IT'S VERY EXCITING SOMETIMES, WHEN I AM IN A MOOD. I LIKE THE BEAUTIFUL WOMAN BODY, SO I EVEN SEND HIM PICTURES OF NAKED WOMEN THAT I FIND BEAUTIFUL AND SEXY. I AM SURE IN MY SELF, I HAVE A HIGH SELF-ESTEEM SO I DON'T FEEL THREATENED BY ANY MEANS OF THE WOMEN IN PORN OR ANY OTHER WOMEN. THAT'S WHAT BOTHERS A LOT OF WOMEN- THAT THEIR HUSBANDS MIGHT FIND A PORN STAR SEXIER OR HOTTER THAN THEM. AND THAT'S ABSOLUTELY STUPID!!!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I really have no prob with porn, but I think it can represent a deeper issue. Porn is allll about the man, treating women in a derogatory way, and I think it very much just sexualizes a woman so that she is then just a sum of body parts. I do think porn has some responsibility in the way women are looked at today. Boys become men and think it's cool to "bang" as many women as possible. Girls think the only way way to obtain love is through sex. And I think there are few porn stars raised in functional families, are not addicts etc.

Answer 4

How to avoid porn addiction on the Internet

1. Consider installing porn content filtering software( Strongly Recommend NetDog Porn Filter,you can get it from www.netdogsoft.com ) on your computer. it will help to protect you from stumbling into pornography by accident, That's important.

2. Do not try to guess what the address of a Web page is. Many pornographic sites have similar addresses of respectable sites. For example www . whitehouse . com is a porn site. The real address is www. whitehouse . gov

3. Never click on Web site addresses that you receive in an unsolicited email.

4. Do not open attachments that come in email that are unsolicited.

5. Use filtered search engines or reputable directories to find the information you need.

6. Do not search for terms like girls. Think before you enter a search term.


Stick with reputable sites.
If something looks questionable, don't let curiosity get the best of you. Delete it or close the window.

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Answer 5

From my personal opinion, I feel like it is degrading to me that my husband wants to look at another womans body to get excited. To me that is what GOD meant as lust. Because obviously a
man excited by the person he is with, would not need to look at
a picture. Feeling lustful after another woman is not honoring your wife in any way.
I feel like each case is individual but personally, I think it is wrong
if it interferes with your relationship in any way. Or if it hurts either
party. If both partners want to look at a video occasionally or something that is different. But the level of porn is just so extreme. It is a business and that is the bottom line. The people
who advertise their bodies have no morals and they could care less about what the outcome is. It just is a business and a way
to make money exploiting women.
It appears to me that most people who get addicted to it, start just looking at it occasionally and then it progresses. Men just
look at it differently than most women but of course, it is the woman that is being degraded in the first place and I think that
is very hard for a man to even get the concept of.
Looking at porn is not something to be taken lightly. I have
personally talked to about 25 or more women about how they
felt about it and only one said they would put up with it. That
one person, I know well enough to see it would become a major
conflict at some point when it jeopardized the relationship. and in the majority of the cases, it does.
Good Luck to You

Answer 6

watching porn is cheating. By paying to watch porn your lining some disgusting manipulating mans pocket. Its sad to think there is so many men and women walking around with their heads full of this disgusting crap. Watching porn turns men into morons who have no respect for any women. Have some pride in yourself and some self respect there is always time to change the road your on.

Answer 7

I'm sure you were referring to my question that I posted. For clarification I want you to know that I am a good looking hispanic girl, petite 5'2 105lbs. I wear a 34c, and wear a size 2. I feel confident with myself as far as my looks go, my issue was whether or not I am justified in feeling hurt and betrayed. It hurts me to think that he would fantasize about another woman when he has me. I try very hard to keep him attracted to me, I always make sure I take care of myself, and try to be attractive to keep his attention. I like to keep things exciting in bed, and yes have actually watched porn with him, have made our own, and have taken photos. When I've found out that he was looking at porn, my first feeling is "what's wrong with me?". He tells me nothing, that he loves me, but I feel like those sexual feelings should only be shared with me, I feel like he's taking sex away from me! and I end up feeling a sense of betrayal and abandonment. He would be just as hurt if he thought that I was having sexual thoughts about another man while I was masturbating, right? When I asked the question, what I wanted to know if my feelings are justified or if men are always going to be men and fantasize about other women no matter what.

Answer 8

My husband and I always watch porn together. It's lots of fun and usually leads in to really great sex. Some women, I think, get jealous of their husbands/boyfriends watching porn because they think their men want girls like the ones in the porn. My husband and I watch it because it is hot to watch other people having sex when you are getting frisky!

Answer 9

Why? Ummm i guess the thought of your partner jacking over someone else maybe an issue for some. Maybe this guy didn't look after his own wife first. Maybe the simple fact is that he lied to her & she thought they had an honesst relationship happening. Or maybe women feel insecure when they cannot compete with the bodies & faces & stamina of these porn stars. YOU KNOW I REALLY KNOW WHAT IT IS NOW. IT CAN MAKE A WOMAN FEEL VERY INSECURE.

Answer 10

I am female and I watch it all the time. It is a great form of release. And my views are if you don't like something don't look or listen to it. I have watched it for many years with or without a partner. God he gave us a gift. If there wasn't a demand for it there wouldn't be so many movies, sites and stars out there.