Once we met at the restaurant, I saw she was pretty but simply not what I was looking for ! I also learned she had 2 kids already and was still married...!!!
What to do? I don't want to hurt her cause she's a very nice and kind person...
2007-01-08 21:58:38 · 14 answers · asked by *Bianka* 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
NO..just break it to her gently......HONESTY...always the
BEST POLICY....
2007-01-08 22:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
You Have To Consider What Is Likely To Hurt Her Most Mate? Is It Better To
A) Tell Her How You Feel Now?
B) Lead Her On Thinking There Is More To The Relationship Than Maybe There Is?
C) Become Friends But Nothing More and Continue With Both Of You Knowing The Situation?
You Don't Sound Like The Kind To Treat Her Bad So It's Up To You Mate, If You Like Her Enough To Keep Her As A Friend Or Something More It's Up To You.
Good Luck Mate, Have A Gooday And A Bonza 2007!
2007-01-08 22:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by Paul R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. The Big Bad Wolf would lead her on.
DON'T DATE MARRIED WOMEN!!! No, she isn't a very nice and kind person if she is still married and dating. She is looking for a better option.
Tell her this is just too complicated, and move on, and wish her the best in her quest for happiness.
2007-01-08 22:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Christian A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, you don't go out with married women, and leave it at that. That is the only thing you need to do. She shouldn't be stepping out on her husband in the first place. If she wants to play the single life, then she should either divorce him or at least a legal separation. ♥
2007-01-08 22:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yno tell her your not in a situation to date her, um that your not ready for any sort of relationship and are playing the field, tell her anything she'll only make her self feel bad whatever you say, then never see her again. its the only way, prolonged contact with an attractive women with issues (husband + kids) is dangerous to your sanity levels. well it'll defnitly get in the way of meeting someone more suitable to your needs.
2007-01-08 22:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be the Wolf...Be honest...why fake it, it only hurts later on.
2007-01-08 22:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by running2adream 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dumb her but in a nice and gentle way- the "It's not you" speech. But she should have been honest. I hate liars!
2007-01-08 22:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by cats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man, you doin the right thing, don't lead her on if its goin nowhere, lifes too short
2007-01-08 22:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by grinny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if she is married ask her why are you dating me when you are married?
2007-01-08 22:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have her husband tell her for you
2007-01-08 22:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by no longer waiting 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth....it's always best
2007-01-08 22:03:09 · answer #11 · answered by salstick 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋