2007-01-08 21:57:15 · 7 answers · asked by DINESH KUMBHAR 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Royalty
Dinesh, I am sorry to hear that your father passed away in December 2004 - 2 years and 1 month ago.
...Most Hindu Indians [your name implies that you are one !] remain in mourning for 12 months only, after which they are fully free to carry on with pursuing their own personal needs - including marriage.
Even this 12-month period is NOT rated as a must - as the religious final rites ['shraardh'] are all completed on the 13th, 21st, or latest the 41st day after a person's demise.
...After that, the Hindu codes of conduct only demand that the heirs of a dead person should offer 'pinda' ['soul food'] once a year, on the concerned 'thithi' [death anniversary].
I have personally come across cases of very orthodox Brahmin boys/girls getting married soon after the final rites ['shraardh'] are over - as it was the ardent wish of the dead person, to see that the boy, or girl, gets married soon.
...You are completely at liberty now, to marry in peace : The full blessings of your father's soul will be with you, for having waited for 2 full years before marrying.
2007-01-08 22:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Indychen 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
religion stops us only for a year to celebrate any occassion.. you can go ahead now
2007-01-09 06:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nishu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely no problem. go a head
2007-01-09 06:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by ravipati 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question is not fully clear.
2007-01-09 06:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sanjeev.Bathinda.Punjab.India. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No objection.
2007-01-09 06:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no objection that I am aware of
2007-01-09 06:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem at all, please go a head.
2007-01-09 06:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by NUPAKRY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋