i know he loves me for about 2 years .i like his apperance & personality but i dont know what to do . I know he is a good friend but I am not sure that i can accept him as a husband (as he is younger sometimes i think he doesnt know what to do ) Will age make a problem for us in future ?is there anyone who has such an experience & can help me?
2007-01-08 21:51:53 · 14 answers · asked by nirvana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think you are using age as a way out
it sounds like you just don't feel the same way about him as he does about you and you are using age to differ the problem.
you have to work out your feelings about him before you move forward sit down and write out the pros and cons and im sure age will not be on the list at all BE HONEST..
there is no reason to keep moving forward until you are secure in the matter and if you can't be then why make a huge step like marrige
2007-01-08 22:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are 5 years and 7 days exactly apart. We have be together for 7 years. I think age is just a number. I am 30 years old and my husband is 25 years old. I was married before to someone my age and we had a lot of problems, but I don't think our age had anything to do with it. My husband is a wonderful man and I wish I would have met him first before my ex. If you love him and he love you, that is all that matters. My father-in-law and mother-in-law have been together for 18 years and the age difference is 14 years. My mother-in-law is the older of the two. They were together 16 years before they tied the knot. The didn't feel the need to get married because they said if was just a piece of paper. They didn't need a piece of paper to tell everyone that they love each other. They are just as happy now, being married, as they was not being married. Don't let a "number" keep you from being happy.
2007-01-08 23:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by godbeyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
human beings have their decision on why they could get married. i have self assurance little ones might want to weigh out their concepts earlier they say "I do". Marriage isn't a sport and its now confusing to stroll faraway from till you've the money to finish that. yet another component, merely because a guy has a rich pastime does not recommend he's husband fabric, same is going for a lady. some adult men, regardless of their age, imagine that flirting is threat free-on condition that you're unmarried. i'm 27 and if i change into unmarried, older adult men do not provoke me in any respect nor how a lot money they make. Its extra to someone than that. some adult men experience its too a lot to bypass the further mile to end college as a thanks to get extra effective pastime possibilities. once lower back all of us have our decision to how we see issues.
2016-12-02 01:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by kobielnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years isn't that big of an age gap at all. As long as he is legally an adult his age shouldn't matter as much as his maturity level. He could be 10 years older than you and still be clueless about the what it takes to be a considerate, loving partner in a relationship. If it is just his age you are worried about don't sweat it. If it is something in his behavior that indicates immaturity you should focus in that issue, not a number.
2007-01-08 22:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by KayO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear u saying you know he loves you, but more importantly DO YOU LOVE HIM? Age isn't really important in a relationship, my mom is 59 and married a man who's now 44. That's not much older than i am. They have been married 22 yrs and are very happy. Follow your heart about LOVE not age.
2007-01-08 23:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matter plus 2 yrs is nothing. My bf is 2 yrs younger then me and we have been together for 4 1/2 yrs now. What you should focus now is in your TRUE feelings. If you really love him.
2007-01-08 22:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by PiZzA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His age should not worry you. You just said that you like him, you should love him, if you going to marry him.
Age is just a number, its only 2 years, its not 30?
Maybe u just using his ´age´ as an excuse not to....
2007-01-08 22:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by BadGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love knows no age, Go for it! I am married to a man that is 9 years younger than me. So yes I urge you to go for it dont waste time life is to short.....
2007-01-08 21:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only 2 years:)even if it was more,who cares?as long as your happy then that is all that matters.
i've dated plenty of younger guys before and had no problems regarding age.
as for him sometimes not knowing what to do,that's normal no matter what the age
2007-01-08 21:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by shiloh jolie-pitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no age makes no difference if hes the one .
but clearly if you need to ask this question i dont think you are in love with him witch will make a huge difference.
nowhere did you say you live him.
i think to marry him wouldn't be fair as both you and him deserve someone who loves you unconditional.
marriage can be hard enough without going into it with issues
good luck to you both
2007-01-08 21:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by trcyhanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋