My friend who's older and straight who's on my soccer team is really nice and handsome more like cute though too. Anyway he doesn't know about me cuz no one does I mean I diodn't say it to anyone that I'm kind of gay, but anyway one day he said like a joke when 2 girls asked us in a bar if we were gay and he just laughed and said hell no but "if we were my pal here (thats me) would be the only dude or guy who could F-- my a--. ! He said it just like that and laughed but since I know about me I got all wierd and odd thoughts popped into me. I always am secretly attracted a lot to him but I never show anything about it. Is it a wierd situation for me?
2007-01-08 21:37:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
F^@& him....F^@& his brains out!!!! Bend him over and hook him up raw dog cuz we all now bare back is better!!!!
He'll be down...as long as you keep it on the DL
2007-01-08 21:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Loren H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should open up to him since you say you are really gay and so you have nothing to hide but be careful coz you might risk losing your friend and you must aproch this matter with an open mind considering that he might have been just joking or he is suspecting something so open up to him and find a sutable way and time.Dont tell him you fancy him that will come later.Good luck and God bless
2007-01-08 22:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by FORTUNATE K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Kaline, You did not do some thing incorrect, nor your chum or husband. all of us is going to split techniques. lower back even as i become in fourth grade, my father and mom advised me that we could flow to a distinct state. This turned right into a not hassle-free decision, because my suitable chum invited me to his social gathering to this water park I continuously wanted to flow. perchance your chum theory that you've been ignoring her, even although you've been nerve-racking, too. perchance her personality replaced dramatically because you 2 won't be able to see one yet another. in case you do not see one yet another anymore, then the relation can advance progressively smaller, till you adult men ignore one yet another. Or, it would want to also be that your chum is fearful. a lot of human beings might want to be fearful even as a relative is coming and also you do not comprehend how they replaced. So be hassle-free, and ask her what her opinion is. good success, Sean Plus: there is in consumer-friendly words some those who're meant for you: your father and mom. If she doesn't like you anymore, basically imagine about some different person more effective significant: you, your son, your husband, and your on the spot kinfolk.
2016-12-28 12:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by saini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too weird. He knows you're gay which is why he figured you wouldn't mind the comment in front of the girls, who were probably hitting on you two. Let it go unless he brings it up again.
2007-01-09 02:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah once you get the idea into your head thinking that you like someone you won't be able to stop thinking about it...he probably suspects that you are and else he finds you attractive..but that doesn't mean he is bi...my ex used to flirt with other guys all the time but never really meant anything by it...i always thought he was crazy but i know he would have never acted on it....
2007-01-08 21:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No -It's guy thing-TRUST ME I really know about this type of situation-because it's happened to me before -I wouldn't think anything of it..maybe he's just a really good friend--but then again you are in Europe-so maybe bring it up in a kidding way....never know
2007-01-09 10:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Art 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might off just been playing around but even if he wasnt hes married to be a homewrecker, and come out off the closet so youll have a better chance of metting someone you are who you are you cant hide that. i wish you luck in finding someone:)
2007-01-08 21:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by sassy is sad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him drunk and see what happens. Few men are straight after a few beers...trust me.
2007-01-09 02:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by cardinalboy97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if you could take him up on his offer.
2007-01-09 01:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my self doesn't like gay and I agreed totally with your friend.,
2007-01-08 21:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋