Hi people,well..i'm newly married,just a week and a half ago ..my husband works and has regular time of returning home,a nine to five schedule,well...i havent been sexually active before marriage with any guy ..i need to know suggestions..i feel particularly attracted when he touches or feels my breasts and stomach..... Please suggest me ways in which i can keep him attracted .. like the other day , i dropped honey on my breasts and he sucked them ..what can i do for experimenting with my stomach or breasts ..particularly..please do suggest .. ...we are planning for a baby in a year..
2007-01-08 21:30:49 · 7 answers · asked by Airhostess N 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Even without the honey, let him suck your nipple on the left breast at the same time, let him play with your private parts by putting his fingers (middle finger) on the lavia of yours and let him move in and out of it until you will attain the climax of it, after which do the necessary love making.
2007-01-08 21:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, kitchen condiments aren't actually required for conception, but good for you for experimenting. I need to warn you though that unless you plan on being kinky for the rest of your life, use it sparingly, as a treat, or he'll come to expect it every time.
Second, there's not a lot of guys, especially younger ones, that LOSE interest in sex very easily. The easiest and cheapest way to keep things interesting is by experimenting with different positions. A copy of the Kama Sutra might serve you well for that. Don't put a schedule on sex, surprise him once in a while. And if he feels like surprising you, let him. You don't have to be his slave, but don't be over-stingy either. It will also be helpful for you to experiment on your own to find out what you like, techniques, etc. Letting him watch you do this, or just showing him when you figure it out, will get him going, but if you're still a little shy for that, it will still help you to know so you can tell him what to do for you.
Third, when it comes to the time that you try having a baby, interest in sex is only a fraction of the story. You'll need to be aware of your cycles and timing will be the big thing there.
Good luck.
2007-01-09 07:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by desiderio 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, a baby will ruin the firmness of your breasts and your stomach, if you do not take GREAT care of yourself. So, if you do not like exercise, or you know that the baby is going to take up all of your time, do not have the baby yet. Make sure you discuss with him how it will affect your body before you decide when to have a baby, and make sure he is OK with this. Now for the fun part of the question,,,, discuss with him what turns you on, and also discuss with him what turns him on. You will be surprised how long you two can remain sexual if you are not afraid of sexual exploration and discussion. I hope your life together is as fun and long lasting as you wish for.
2007-01-09 05:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to teach a fish how to swim. It is within you,..give that-let him drink the dew from your lips sip by sip...experience- what happens to you both, You will be pregnant in a month's time...Always say that you are missing him a lot!!! He will think for what!! Say NO to alcohol and tobacco.
2007-01-09 05:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first you have to have the money, and you have to be ready! just be yourself, if you're scared or don't know what to do to attract your man then you're not ready! It should come naturally! It's a natural thing! If you need help, you shouldn't be afraid to just ask him! ask him what he likes, and if he's unexperienced as well then research things together and find out what you like and don't like and what you're willing to try!
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-09 05:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by vetsmom_rgv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say you dont need any suggestion with the one you just come up with, id just say be yourself and enjoy it, you have the rest of your life. just tell your husband what you like and see what happens and go with the flow x
2007-01-09 08:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by rachel c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there are you for real ......you came up with that ......and you are looking for advice ......i really do not think that you need advice .....you are doing a great job keeping him interested .....just keep enjoying each other xx take care xx
2007-01-09 05:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋