Nothing happens when I masterbate?

Question

I'm 20 and I try and masterbate and nothing happens. Whats wrong with me?

Answer 1

maybe it just wont get you off.. maybe try a man.. he might be able to help ya out.

Answer 2

Hi,
There is no need to avoid the masterbation.
Masturbation is the stimulation of the sexual organs usually by a person himself, to obtain an orgasm. Though masturbation can be done by partners on one another, the term is more commonly used when sexual satisfaction is provided by self. Most people use their hands to masturbate, but instruments like vibrators and dildoes may also be used. These imitate the movements of the hand and provide sexual pleasure.

Masturbation is a way of releasing pent up sexual energy. Most people start masturbating at the time of puberty. With changes in an individual's hormonal profile during puberty, there is a surge of sexual energy which can be released with the help of masturbation. Masturbation is reported more in males than in females. More than a physiological difference in libido, this may be due to sociological taboos on females. Females also tend to discontinue or reduce masturbation when they form sexual relationships.

This is the! ! biggest myth surrounding masturbation. If indulged in moderation, masturbation, on the contrary, is a healthy practice that releases sexual energy. According to certain religious practices and beliefs, masturbation is harmful since it results in the loss of a man's "seeds" and makes him weak. Masturbation in women has largely been ignored in the religious texts. Other myths surrounding the act are that it reduces virility by making the semen less thick thereby reducing the chances of a man to bear children. This is totally untrue. Masturbation does not cause any loss of strength or virility in a person.

Only males masturbate ? this is not true. Females masturbate as much as males do. However, they tend to report it less than males due to the social stigma attached to it. Also it has been observed that females tend to reduce or discontinue masturbation once they get into meaningful sexual relationships.

Masturbation is unhealthy ? masturbation per se does not cause any health hazards. It is not an unhealthy habit. However, it may be mentally unhealthy if it assumes obsessive proportions and the individual is unable to think of anything else. It may also have physical repercussions if the instrument used to masturbate is dirty or infected.

Only adolescents masturbate ? though the practice usually begins during adolescence, almost all adults practise it at some time or the other.

Masturbation does not provide as much satisfaction as sexual intercourse ? sometimes masturbation is more satisfying than the sex act. This is because, during masturbation, an individual is in control of his own movements and can maximize the pleasure according to his or her needs. During sexual intercourse, the degree of satisfaction may, to some extent, lie with the partner.

People masturbate only if they have unfulfilling sexual relationships ? people also masturbate for self satisfaction, even when they have fully satisfying sexual relationships.

One can stop masturbating if one wants to. Just as one can live without indulging in sex, one can also stop masturbating with some will power. However, since the activity has nothing to be ashamed of and most people do it, there is no scientific reason to discontinue it. If one still wishes to discontinue, then the sexual energy may need to be channelised into alternative physical activities.

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Enjoy Life

Dr. Mojo

Answer 3

You are ultra normal. I'd imagine you are so down to earth that you think "something's wrong with you" because you are not shallow minded.

Just wait for a guy like me to come along and turn you on with pure honesty. It works. My wife never masturbated. She tried it once or twice, but like you, nothing happened. She said, and I believe her, that she was unknowingly waiting for me. We have awesome sex.

You'll have someone like me some day. You'll be loved. Chill.

Answer 4

To be honest if you do not have a mate. and visual aides do not work, fantasies can be tiring try a good book or magazine with stories in them. and some people just never get comfortable with it but it is a good stress reliever. I am 42

Answer 5

well, just maybe you might want to go to the library and investigate an Anatomy & Physiology textbook, then look in the table of contents, under Reproduction, and then look at the drawings of your particular anatomy (according to gender), then compare the anatomical drawings to your particular body part, (maybe using a handmirror), just to make sure you have all the parts there. Then if everything is in place, refer to the book called "the joy of sex". I suppose that should do it.

Answer 6

Maybe you're one of those unfortunate few that have no sensation down there. I think you should go see your doctor about this. This topic is nothing to be embarrassed about when talking with your doctor.

Answer 7

it takes practice to reach orgasm, you must find what you like, i only have one toy that can give me an orgasm, the rest are trash, so try different types. you can go in your vagina or just on the clitoris. try a back massager with many settings, you can play around with it until you find what you want.

Answer 8

nothing, you are more than likely doing it wrong. Try using sliquid or baby oil for lubricity

Answer 9

You need to tenderly caress your clitoris while fantasising of a great sexual experience, its all in the mind baby!

Answer 10

Just try and relax and lots will happen.