I loved this girl for about 6 years and I never told her how i felt about her, even though there was a lot of chances on doing it. So a couple of months ago a friend told me that she was about 4 months pregnant. It was shocking news because she wasn't the type of girl that would get herself pregnant like that. Later that week I went to her house to talk to her and she told me that it was indeed true and that she didn't want to abort the baby so she was going to keep it. Then I asked about the father of the baby and if she's going to stay with him. She told me that she is going to have to stay with him because it was the father (which i believe that she doesn't have to). So then I told her how i felt about her and she told me that she knew but just wanted me to tell her. I'm glad that she's having the baby in fact it's a girl and its due this February. BUT should I keep loving her and be a good friend and be by her side just incase the father leaves or to move on and forget about her?
2007-01-08 20:22:13 · 7 answers · asked by Mr. Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She needs a good friend, but for God's sake man, why on earth did it take you so long to tell her how you feel? She doesn't have to stay with the father just because he's the father. The baby will still be able to know him. Does she love the man? Do you think she has feelings for you? I think you should pursue her even though she is pregnant. She may have more feelings for you than you think she does.
2007-01-16 13:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the saddest thing I've read on Yahoo tonight. You seem like a really nice guy, and this girl has a life that she obviously keeps secret from you. I think you would be shocked if you knew what kind of girl she really is. Seriously, right now your relationship with this girl REALLY reminds me of Forrest Gump's relationship with Jenny. I'm not saying that your girl is THAT bad, but you saw how it was. It sounds like what you guys have. I would keep her as a friend but never looks at it as more than that becaues there is probably a good girl out there for you. And trust me, you shouldn't let your desire for her interfere with your pursuit of a more suitable companion. One whose lifestyle, dreams and goals are a little MORE in line with yours than this friend of yours.
2007-01-09 04:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends she will need a friend if the father leaves her
2007-01-09 04:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by sammlwrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay in the background for now, be friends, babysit if
asked. If it doesn't work you'll hear about it first.
2007-01-16 15:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..i know its difficult to swallow the truth for u..and that the gal is very bad..and u shud not like her anymore.
so that she feels she was wrong in her deeds..
but incase 'the father' leaves her, u must be there..
2007-01-09 04:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she need a friend like you right now.
2007-01-09 04:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your heart tell you? Follow your heart.
2007-01-16 21:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by GENE D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋