6 months ago me and my friend had a little fight nothin big or anythin i just told her to stop putting me down and being a ***** to me.but every since then shes managed to make all my friend hate me. ive tried makeing new friends and everythin but all i want it my old ones back and not to be hated. i dont no what ive done when we used to be the best of friends for years. what can i do?
2007-01-08 20:20:48 · 12 answers · asked by Sam B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
doesn't sound like any of them are truly being friends to you, so ...
to heck with 'em, you don't need that kinda crap in your life anyway. you'll make new friends, but this time , be a little pickier.
2007-01-08 20:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by geezer 51 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem with my friends. Eventually I talked to the girl I'd known the longest, and we had a really long talk. I told her what had happened, and how sad and lonely I was without her and the others. She was so great, and talked to the other girls, and now we are all friends again. I guess if that doesn't work, you'll just have to try to make other friends, I did, even though I'm back with my old friends, I now have some new friends too. Good Luck.
2007-01-09 06:22:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Twin♣Sis♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look...That friend and all of the other ones Well
they weren't your friends in the 1st place. Have you heard of (Respect to be Respected) Well, that also applies to friendships. And if they Can't respect you and your feelings you don't need that kind of people in your life. be strong and stand up for what you believe find friends who are going to give you the same respect you give them. Because you only look like a weak person if they can say and do what they want to you. Good luck! and trust me you will find the right friends for you! :0)
2007-01-09 04:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by pinkbubbles282004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did that for that stupid fight, she's not normal! I think you should not think about this so much! Try to go on some sport and you will find some new friends!!! After that you can talk and laugh with your new friends in front of her, and she will be the one who will say "forgive me, I was such a full". Don't worry! Real friends are always next to you!
2007-01-09 05:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids are like this. They single each other out..they need someone to talk about and its you right now. Try and get new friends. Start talking to the nerds or ppl you normally would not talk to. You do not need these so called friends. If they WERE your friends they would not have ll ditched you like this. As you get older you realize how fake ppl are. These ppl are all fake. This happened to me also. My best friends from the start of middles school until graduating from high school. I saw how she always put me down and treated me like crap. I told her to call me when she grew up otherwise dont think about it. She never called me back and my like has been stress free! You dont need this drama in your life. I bet you money these girls talked about you even when they said you were their friend. They turned on you so fast but they were in the wrong
2007-01-09 04:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't worry about it. You're just like me, though i still have a number of good friends and we're good. Try to make friends when a new batch of students come to your school next year and warn them about that bimbo. Though first of all, try to mix around with anyone you find able to build a good relationship with and who also hasn't been poisoned by that biatch of a girl who told your so-called friends not to befriend you.
2007-01-09 04:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Clemence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just a girlie thing, no one can hate anyone, ull both get over it. Shes probably thinking how silly it was for u two to be fighting. Dont worry ull be ok
2007-01-09 04:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by brissy_006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was a kid we used to call it "flat leaving" someone....One girl sort of makes the rules, so the other ones follow, so they aren't the one teased, picked on or disliked, and not "allowed" to hang with the click.....this has been going on for decades......the more you let her/them see it bothers you, the more their gonna' do it......understand?..don't seem so needing of them, that is what fuels their bull crap.....Ignore it/them as best you can..It is hard to feel left out, but don't feed their ego's at your expense.......
2007-01-09 04:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about them.
They arent your great friends.
2007-01-09 05:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by kirthi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck up your pride and say that you didnt mean the way come off the way you did. and then tell them nicely there critism is appreciated an you know they care for you but you just don't want it.
2007-01-09 07:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,dont worry about it.if they were ur friends,and this is what they do, then who needs them. friends are easy to find and make, so just relax,be nice,and believe in urself.
2007-01-09 04:27:56 · answer #11 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋