she is not my friend
we are in one group, we discuss things most of the time, about are project and I have diffucult time to focus in our discussion when she is near because my nose is irritated with the smell coming from her amrpit.
thanks
2007-01-08 20:01:27 · 10 answers · asked by penelope c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
during a casual conversation with her, bring up the perfume topic, like women normally do. then when she losen up ask her "what deodorant do you use? I use mitchum and it never lets me down. Keeps me dry the whole day! You should try it!"
2007-01-08 20:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most effective, straightforward thing to do is to pull her aside, as politely as possible and tell her that she has a bad odor. Maybe she will appreciate someone telling her. But if you are not that close to her, then I would recommend you give her a perfume of Christmas. Maybe she will get the hint. But if you do not want to buy something and think that will not be effective, the best thing to do is let her know. You can even say "Hey, what's that smell??" And hopefully she will pick on, do it in a joking, many fun kind of way if you are close to her like that and she will not find offense. It all depends on the person. Some people are more sensitive than others, But that is not your problem, you just need to get her to shower more and use deodorant, or perfume, since it is your space and bad smells STINK!! (sorry there really isn't a way of not offending someone, just be as kind as possible)
2016-05-22 22:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone must really talk to you about water....
No really, you should try and leave hints like "geez its hot in here. thank god i had a shower this morning". or during a brake say u wil be late for 5-10 minutes cause you want to make a run for the nearest grocery store and buy some deodorant. You wont have enough time later cause you have so many things to do. And smile. You can gasp for breath later...
2007-01-08 20:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by kaustikos1981 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just put a can of deodorant on her desk or locker or wherever shell find it without letting her know where it came from and hopefully shell get the picture. Good luck
2007-01-08 20:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a suggestion box at work, then put a note in it and ask that someone talk to her. You can don't have to sign it with your name. You can also speak or leave a note for a supervisor and they can speak to your co-worker.
2007-01-08 20:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by fran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your managment about this it is there responsibility. Because if you say something to her she may take it wrong and report you and you get fired for sexual harrassment with a restraining order. Let your boss deal with it, its not your prob.
2007-01-08 20:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her...Tell her that you don't want to make her feel bad but, she has in odor and its not good. That you want to tell her before someone tells her in a rude way. and see what she tells you after that. maybe she has a medical condition and she can talk to her doctor about it. Be nice about it show her that you care.
2007-01-08 20:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by pinkbubbles282004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a Joke about it. "Damn Lady, Did you just get through with your Man? `Cuz you smell like it?"
2007-01-08 20:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your occupational health and safety representative. its a health and safety issue
2007-01-08 20:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by grinny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SAY, CHEW-WEE YOU STINK!
2007-01-08 20:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋