what is responsiblity of an ideal husband to make his wife happy?

Answer 1

My husband and I dated 3.5 years and married for 3 years. The little things that he does every day makes me so happy, and I feel so blessed to have him in my life. He is so considerate. Without me asking he would wash the dishes and help me with the laundry. He would let me eat first. If we are at the restaurant and his food arrives first, he would push it over to me. He doesn't know how to cook but he attempted to cook spaghetti with meatball for me one night. He would not allow me in the kitchen at all because he wanted to do everything himself. When he asked, I would yell out instructions from the next room. I could see him getting teary eyed due to the onion chopping. I could tell that he was trying so hard. In the process, I smelled something burning and stepped into the kitchen but he waved for me to leave and said everything was fine. When he was done, he apologized that the meatballs broke apart so it became meat sauce. He was so cute!! The meal was pretty good for a first timer. I love his effort.

I love going to the gym and grocery shop with him. I love it when he wakes up first and when I open my eyes I see him smiling at me. I feel so loved when out of the blue he reaches out and caresses my face or tucks my hair behind my ear. I love the occasional massages too. I just started getting grey hair here and there and he would help me pluck them out. He remembers the important dates. He would go to the doctor's appointments with me whenever there's needle involved, because he knows that I have needle phobia. I fainted in the clinic one time and woke up when he squeezed my hand. I can talk to him about anything. He gave me the freedom to pursue my fashion interest. I was able to change my career because of his support of my dream. I don't need to put on make up or dress in fancy clothes to please him. He loves me just the way I am. It feels so good to be with someone like this.

We got married in jeans and tennis shoes at the courthouse and we spent very little money on the rings. When I was young, I wanted a big wedding like my friends, but after having met my husband, I realized that simple things make me happy and the love that he's shown me is greater than anything any amount of money can buy.

No, he's not bald or alot older than me. He's actually tall, handsome, smart, and 1 year younger than me! I still cannot believe this kind of love is happening to me.

Action speaks louder than words. Do the little things that's unexpected. Good luck!

Answer 2

To love unconditionally, no matter how old or how sick the wife gets in time. To be a supportive partner and always have her back, even if she is the biggest klutz in the world. To make her feel safe and secure whenever she is most vulnerable and yet to give her the freedom to fly and achieve her dreams when the opportunities come by. To commit physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually at levels that both husband and wife meet mutually and respectfully.

Answer 3

Uh, let's see.........Don't fart at the dinner table, uh, don't scratch your balls in public, um don't pee on the toilet seat or in the shower, get out to do that sort of stuff..... uh let's see there has got be more...um don't grab a handful in the mall, don't belch burp or make any underleg noises in public whatsoever, pay attention to what she's saying even though she's still dressed, uh get your own damn beer, use deoderant and brush your teeth at least once a week......... That should do it. She'll be happy as a lark if you can do these basic things for her...........

Answer 4

First of all, she should be happy with him as he is. If not, there is something wrong with the relationship.

As for the daily issues and stresses of her individual life, just be patient and supportive. Talk when she needs it, listen when she needs it, hold her, give her space, distract her by taking her out, etc whenever she needs it.

The key is to talk to her and find out what makes her the happiest. If you disagree with her, try to compromise as much as possible to avoid spiteful or hurt feelings.

Answer 5

Why are you asking us when you should be asking your wife?? Its called communication. The key to any relationship! Talk to your wife she knows what she wants more than we do!!

Answer 6

Treat her with respect,love and understanding! Communication is the key. Good luck!

Answer 7

Just respect her, and every action you take based on that respect will please her.