HI AM I WRONG? ME AND MY FRIEND KNOW EACH OTHER FOR A MONTH KNOW. WE ARE THE BEST FRIENDS THAT YOU CAN GET. SHE GOT KICKDE OUT OF THE PLACE WHERE SHE LIVED. SO I SAID WHY DON'T YOU CAM AND LIVE WITH ME AND MY BOFRIEND. SHE DID. BUT SHE HAS BEEN HURT REAL BAD. SHE WHASE RAPED AND SHE IS PREGNANT KNOW. BUT THE BABY IS HER BOFRIENDS. BUT HE WENT AND SWAT. SO I JUST WAN'T TO BE THERE FOR HER. WE SIT AND CHAT. I JUST WAN'TTO BE THERE FOR HER. NO MATER WHAT. WE JUST FALL A SLEEP IN ONE BED. AND KNOW WE ARE NOT GAY. BUT MY BOFRIEND GET SO MAD. HE DON'T WANT TO TALK TO ME AND MY FREIND. HOW IS IN THE RONG KNOW.
2007-01-08 19:51:24 · 24 answers · asked by Hotrod Hoender 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he is being a total nobby jobby my friend stayed with me for 3 nights not a lot i agree we shared the same bed while my hubby slept on couch he never battered an eye lid she needed my support n someday ur man will need support what goes around comes around :-)xx
2007-01-08 22:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by blonde286021 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think its fine to be there for her, but your boyfriend might be feeling left out or neglected or her presence in your home is making him uncomfortable. Talk to him about it.
As far as sleeping in the same bed, it doesn't seem gay to me as I often share a bed when staying over at my friend's houses, but your boyfriend might miss you in HIS bed at night!!!
You need to spend time with BOTH your friend and your boyfriend. If they dislike eachother's company, give some alone time to each of them.
Also, you should get your friend some help with getting back on her feet. Refer her to the state social welfare office where they will be able to assist her with rent and such. She will be happier being able to have a place of her own, nearby to you (maybe in same apartment building across the hall?) than to leech off of you for a looooong time.
2007-01-08 19:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by Elysia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like every man he is jealous. He wants to be in the bed too. If you allow this you may loose your man to your best friend. You have to give your friend attention to your man. Don't leave him out. When you are finished talking with your new found friend. You should go and get in your own bed. Talk to your man and let him know whats going on. That you are just supporting your friend. I know you don't want to loose both of them.
2007-01-08 19:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by someones sister 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong as long as you are not trying to sleep with your friend. SHe trusts you and its not right to take advantage of her. Your bf needs to chill. Talk it over with him, maybe her living with you is not so great. You can be a good frind but you cant support you otherwise she will never get on with her life
2007-01-08 19:56:22 · answer #4 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not wrong, men can be insecure when it comes to sharing..... just make sure you don't ignore him and give him his time too and make sure to include him he'll be fine. Now if he doesn't know what she's going through if he's not in on the loop since she is living with you he does need to be clued in.
2007-01-08 19:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by KitKat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well although you say your not gay,many men might be a bit upset at finding there g,f in bed with another girl...you sound like a nice caring person,but stick to seperate beds.
2007-01-08 19:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your English sucks... but imagine your boyfriend falling asleep in one bed with a guy. Wouldn't you suspect something?
2007-01-08 19:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take ur boyfiends feeling into account he is in a relationship with you not ur friend sit down and take to him maybe he mite help if you get him involved as well !!! G L
2007-01-08 20:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by steven c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are. because you are in a relationship. you can be there for your friend but, you have a relationship and that is important too. If your friend is more important then you don't need to have a boyfriend!
2007-01-08 19:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by pinkbubbles282004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously need a spare bed!
2007-01-08 20:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by Babybonce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋