2007-01-08 19:29:04 · 20 answers · asked by nthabi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to find your own man...
2007-01-08 20:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see. Got pregnant out of wedlock, having sex with a married man. That is a moral delima. Maybe trying living a more moral life so your child won't suffer for your mistakes and bad choices would be good start.
2007-01-09 03:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He accepted you because he knows you are in emotional position to be taken advantage of and with your hands full, he feels there will be a way out later.
Stay away from married men, they are trouble. They don't love you. They just use you.
2007-01-09 04:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to figure this one out yourself.
I would suggest that you close your eyes and envision everyone you know and care about around the kitchen table... your grandmother, your baby, your parents, a favorite auntie, a favorite teacher, maybe your spiritual leader.... 20 years from now. Explain why you made the choice that you did. What is your legacy to your child... and to his?
God bless!
2007-01-09 03:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
always be aware that this married man can go back to his wife at any time and leave u so don't put too much trust in him. u really need to stay away from him if he is married, what future do u think u go with a married man?
2007-01-09 03:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should get to cought up with that married man because you know they say dont worry ima leave my wife to be with yo... and you never know i think you should stick with ur child and try to find a single or wait till that married relationship ends on its own...
2007-01-09 03:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, are you seeing a married man?
If so, you need to stop..........and think about his family and the damage you are doing for selfish reasons. That life style is an accident waiting to happen.............change it!
Start wearing snuggies!
2007-01-09 03:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by LucySD 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For starters, get some self respect.
End it with the married guy.
Look after the child.
2007-01-09 03:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anna K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how do you think your baby will feel when say he hear this:
Oh your mummy caused my family to break up.
I lost my daddy because of your mummy...
I dont think he will feel proud of whatever that you are doing.
furthermore, hallo~~ this is a married man. put yourself in his wife's position. how would u feel if ur husband fool around.
and if he can do this to his wife... he can do this to you...
even if he doesnt... can u live with the guilt?
2007-01-09 03:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by alibaba 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY!!!! Not only is it wrong. Its any unhealthy relationship. No good can come from an affair. He already gave his life long commitment to another women. Do you really want to be that selfish?
2007-01-09 03:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by CaelinsMama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its time for u to stand on ur 2 feet and support urself and ur child.
Don't depend on a man...plus he's a married man, just imagine his wife would be so devastated if she were to find out.
There are other man out there who could love u and ur child and they arent married,
2007-01-09 03:34:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋