hi, friends after marriage are you love to mother or wife?

Question

who da?

Answer 1

There's a very nice and old Calypso song sung by Harry Belafonte that goes like this :

If your mother & your wife are drowning
I want to know which one you'll be saving
You can always get another wife
But you can never get another mother in your life .

It answers your question very well !

Answer 2

There are various kinds of ‘love.’ The love you have for your mother is not the same as the love you should have for your wife. The love for your mother is a love reserved for bloodline family members of whom mother is normally the closest. The love for wife is so much different; she is exclusively your wife, mother can be mother to other siblings. With wife there is sexual attraction and sexual gratification, with mother these emotions are missing.Wife becomes mother to your own children, etc., etc. In the final analysis your loyalty, your love, etc. should be first with your wife. Look at it this way, lets call love for mother till child’s marriage ‘A’ and love for wife ‘B’ Your mother got love ‘A’ from you and siblings and love ‘B’ from your father, so she got her share of ‘A& B’ Your wife will get ‘A’ from your children and ‘B’ from you so she will get her share of ‘A & B”
Similarly all married women get their share of ‘A & B” except of course those who don’t have children. So next time your mother throws up the fact that she is your mother and therefore entitled to more love etc. from you explain how the system works things out so that all are more or less taken care of.

Answer 3

After marriage, I love to wife and mother. Both was attention , help and money from each male member.

Answer 4

thats a very stupid question i feel coz no-one and nothing-believe me nothing in this world can take ur mother's place not even ur wife. u have to love them both in their own individual way,however never ever do anything to hurt ur mother or infact ur parents for i deeply and sincerely believe that no matter whatever u do in life ur parents specially mother,will always understand u and forgive u.she'll be the best person who can advise u,help u,understand u and above all be with u always. so never ever have this question in ur mind again.MOTHER IS THE UNIVERSE TO A CHILD!!!THE FASTER U REALIZE THAT AND MAKE UR WIFE REALIZE THAT TOO THE BETTER FOR U 2!!

Answer 5

u can love both and keep both of them happy. Don't take anyone's side but first understand & then speak. secondly shift to another house and visit ur parents every week or15 days. ur wife will be happy and ur parents too. but whenever u do this just see that u make them understand that u are leaving just for avoiding unnecessary arguments in future. U love them and will take care of them even if u r far from them.

Answer 6

After marriage i still love the woman i fell in love with in the beginning.

Answer 7

your mother is your mother and yes you should love her but the love for a spouse is supposed to be something you had a choice over,,you picked them hopefully because they made you happy and you want to spend the rest of your life with them as your partner in all things,your life,the two of you,just as your mother had when she married.

Answer 8

u love to mother u love to wife u love to the hole humen race dat how much u need love and dont forget u love to yer cat to.

Answer 9

he says stay with ur mum or get a wife

i choose wife constant nagging mum

like go take a shwoer go get that remote get me drink of water, wash the dishes GET OFF THAT COMPUTER, like get me this get me that soooo annoying if u lives with my mum u would turn emo

Answer 10

Both positions cannot be compared.

Keep them in different slots ,be a caring son & a good husband.