i always help them if they need my help....
i always make them laugh....
i show them that i really care for them....
im 4thyear highschool and i will graduate in march...
i have failing grades....i ask my closest friend to help me
to do my projects but he say that its my obligation....
instead of helping me he show that he dont care to me!!
i do a lot of good things to him...why he never appreciate that?? its very UNFAIR...im helping them and in just little things thay cant help me!!! and they know that i have FAILING GRADES and they dont even show that they CARE to me......It look likes THEY DONT CARE TO ME......
i cant write here what i feel and what i want to say because im not that great in english but the my point is...
why they never appreciate all the good things that i do to them??? they are so SELF CENTERED.... i hate them so much.........
2007-01-08 19:19:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Alright, take a deep breath and settle down. Obviously, if your friends don't appreciate everything you do for them, and are not willing to be there for you when you need them, they are not real friends. You sound like you are a really caring person who just wants to help out your friends when ever you can, and I think you need to find some REAL Friends that will treat you the same way. You also need to take some time out and spend some time on yourself, instead of on them, then maybe you could get your grades up and then things won't seem as bad. Just remember that real Friends are there when you need them, and always have time for you no matter what.
2007-01-08 19:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Cato Says "Kalamaloo" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sorry but it is your obligation to be self-sufficient. It is your first responsibility to help yourself. Only after that you can spend some time and energy on your frinds to make them laugh. It is not your friends job to do your projects. Yes, they might have helped, but if they have too much stuff to do of their own this is what they have to do. Next time, give only what you can give, not everything.
If you say you made them laugh and now you expect that they have to help you with your projects you are baiting them and victimizin gyourself at the same time. You are not a victim, are you? You can get help elsewhere is your friends said they can't help you.
2007-01-08 20:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 18:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by welcome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting some new friends and grade them according to their attitudes.U will find out there are people who are out there to help u study and offering u closeness than the ones u have.so u will c that yo old friends are there for this and this not that.
2007-01-08 19:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by realistic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple find friends that appericate you for who you are.
2007-01-08 21:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends...
2007-01-08 20:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋