2007-01-08 18:47:22 · 29 answers · asked by Bindas Boll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my openion is frienship. because friendship never change in life. but love may change to wife or ex lover like that. my choice is friendship always..............
2007-01-08 18:52:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo !! What is better --- left eye or right eye ? can you possibly think of an answer to this ? thus is the case with friendship & love. friendship without love is non existent. love without friendship is in reality impossible. If you are asking for a comparison between a friend and a lover... i guess the base difference would be the "making love" and the related commitments et al which doesn't happen (atleast normally) in friendship. This view may vary from country to country though !! Essentially your question is a very subjective issue and selecting a person as a friend or a lover is more a matter of personal judgement and commitments - i suppose !! Good (old) question. thanks.
2007-01-09 04:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by bokhoba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The greates thing is a Very Very Very Good Friend Ship Thats Leads to a Wonderful Loving Relationship
2007-01-09 02:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good question...
However I'm gonna have to say those are two different topics.
Friendship is a bond u share with someone with who u have aalot in common with.... Now that I sit and reflect they are the same becuz who u love must be a friend and whoever is your friend u love. Hmmmmm very good question I'm stumped!! When u find out let me know!
2007-01-09 02:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by cubby12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HERE ARE 40 REASONS WHICH REALLY HURT,COZ OF LOVE..AND I THINK THERE ARE ONLY 2-3 REASONS WHICH
ARE CAUSED BY FRIENSHIP!
1. Letting go of a person youve learned and decided to love
2. Reminiscing the good and bad times you shared together
3. Shielding your heart to love somebody
4. Trying to hide what you really feel
5. Trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from your eyes
6. Loving a person too much
7. Giving up someone you never thought of giving up
8. Having the right love at the wrong time
9. Taking the risk to fall in love again
10. Hiding your relationship from someone else
Couple at dawn
11. Controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend
12. Thinking of him/her every waking and sleeping moment knowing all the while that he/she never even thinks a single thought of you
13.Letting go, because every time you see the person, you only fall deeper
14. Holding back only to find out when its too late, you both felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didnt let the feelings out
15. Falling in love with someone you didnt mean to fall in love with
16. Finding the perfect girl/man - with only one problem - he/she doesnt love you
17. Helping the one you love to court your friend
18. Seeing the one you love crying for someone else
19. The waiting also hurts like h e l l
20. Having to hear ... Ive met someone
21. Agreeing to his/her wish to just be friends
22. Asking him/her freedom back so he/shed be happier with him/her
23. Asking you to forget that everything happened and be normal friends again
24. Hearing that youre treated as a brother/sister (ouch!)
25. Sharing his/her future plans for the guy/gal with you
26. You stopped being friends cuz his/her bf/gf asked him/her to.
27. Being denied in front of people
28. Telling you lies where he/shed been when actually he/she was with a new friend or an old flame
29. He/she told you he/shed be leaving you to return to his/her ex
30. Breaking someones heart
31. Fighting for that one thing that would make you happy
32. That is, holding to a person who can not guarantee you his/her commitment unless he/she fix him/herself - then you are left hanging for the moment - then he/she says, time will tell.. ang labo niya....but you still decided to hope in him/her and trust him/her
33. Pretending youre ok when inside youre dying
34. Pretending to be strong and recognizing your weakness lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have
35. Being with someone you cant actually love
36. Pretending you dont love a person whom you actually love
37. Being in love
39. Seeing the person you love hurt because of you and not being able to help that person
40. Having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love and finding out afterwards that things will never be same again when he doesnt treat you with the same closeness as before
SO, I THINK FRIENDSHIP IS BETTER!
2007-01-09 09:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by inab k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely FRIENDSHIP!!! the person u call ur friend is the same person u love, don't u??? u can always depend on ur friends and moreover u don't have to feel insecure or jealous if they are having a affair instaed u feel happy for them. thats what is friendship however in love there is always a thin line of doubt somewhere,there is always the fear of losing the person......so y the hell go for such unnecessary tension.enjoy life and freek out with friends man,u'll see life is beautiful
2007-01-09 07:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many "ifs" about this question. If your friend is asking you to choose between them and someone you think you love, I would need more information before advising you. But just in general, if you think you are in love I hope they are also your best friend. You might get better answers if you elaborated a little more on your situation.
2007-01-09 03:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well both of them are important.
Friends are for lifetime. Those are true friends they help us whenever we need help. Which ever time it is. And do you know you love your friends. With out friends we cannot live. In this world everyone has a friend. With friends we are happy and live joyfully and friends are those whit whom we share our sorrows & joys.
Love is also important. We treat them under our best friends.So in this love is also a type of friendship.
2007-01-09 06:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sachin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is better choice. As bond of love is more stronger than friendship. Love should not be broke by any circumstance. But Friendship will break when there is any misunderstanding..
Love occurs rarely bu friendship occurs instantly....
i.e one proverb is
"Late to hot late to cool"
Love take time but remains longer..
2007-01-09 03:08:18 · answer #9 · answered by Babun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi frnds i thnk frndship is very much important in ur love relation ...if thereis no relationship or frndship thn how cn relation of love develops ..love takes place from frndship..i thnk u feel great wen u r in love ..bt u feel at the top of the world wen u hve nice frnds..so take ur decision..bcoz it depends on our own thnking tht which one gives u more happiness..just set ur relation n continue to tht only..
2007-01-09 02:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both
2007-01-11 01:46:39 · answer #11 · answered by DUNE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋