any one still have a problem crying.after taking care of a loveing one.?

Question

after staying with a loved one for a long time taking care of them till they die.I stayed for nine months tlll mother died when the cancer went to her brain,.any suggestions about how to stop crying every darn day.its been years since she died.

Answer 1

My Mom passed this May of Cancer..I stayed with her for 2yrs.
It affects different people in different ways. I feel very relieved that
she does not have to suffer any more. My sister on the other hand, can't put away pictures, or go into her house without crying.
I had to get rid of all her clothes and personal items. My sister totally fell apart. She can't get rid of any of her things.
Having lots of our family around really helps. They give us a lot
of moral support. All those hugs help so much. You just have to work it out the best you can. Say some prayers. I will say some for you. Here's a big HUG hope it helps.

Answer 2

its natural to grieve when someone close to you dies, and everyone grieves for a different amount of time.
To help, maybe you could write a letter to your mum (i know this sounds weird) or keep a daily journal and adress some things to her in it. That way you are still communicating with her and it may not be as painfull.
If this and other things dont help then it might be time to see a counsellor or talk to someone you can trust.
Im sure your mother would want u too get this sorted and enjoy this precious life that she gave you.

Answer 3

cryin is not always bad..cryin over a person who left long time ago shows how faithful and senstive ur feelings were towards this person

Answer 4

its a close bond you have with your mother having an effect on you, you will get over it in time... im not having that problem though

Answer 5

WELL U JUST NEED TO ACCEPT THAT SHES GONE AND TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT IT BUT ALWAYS REMEMBER HER -----LUIS AND IM ONLY 18