i still do like boys but for the past year i've noticed that im more interested in girls as in..i look at their bodies all the time and im more interested in talking to them and i fantasize about kissing jessica alba sometimes......i still do like boys but not as much as i used to and its odd not for a 16 year old not to be interested in boys...
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2007-01-08 18:36:30 · 10 answers · asked by pamplemousse 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Girl, I went through the same thing at your age(im 18 now).To me it was just a phase, but sometimes to other people it can mean that they really are attracted to same sex.You could just be more comfortable with the same sex! All women look at other womens bodies.We want to know if were the same, does she look better? Are there tips I can take from her? or even ''wow she looks good.she's sexy!''. Its nothing wrong with that.Looking and complementing on other women dosent mean you're bi.Fantasizing could be a phaze and it could always be that you really do want to kiss a girl.At that age it's alot of things you're not going to be sure of.It's going to be alot of things in life that may confuse you.Dont go and jump to conclusions! I have kissed a girl and experimented with her. In the end, I found out it just wasnt for me.I liked guys and thats what I stuck to.My friend on the other hand ..she also experimented and she figured that she liked it more then a guys ....(u know) so she swings both ways! So follow your heart and see where it takes you. Maybe experiment?? See how it is.It's nothing wrong with trying something! Who knows after this you can be grossed out by it! lol Good Luck and if you need to contact me for support my email is Nycz_Most_Envied_Mami@Yahoo.com ;)
2007-01-08 18:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think you know you're bi, just from the way you described your feelings. At sixteen, that can feel like heavy load to handle. I'm gay and came out 15, so I know from experience that it can seem like a lot to deal with at once. Just take your time and be yourself. Everything else will fall into play.
2007-01-08 18:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say you can tell if you're Bi or not by thinking about which sex you would have a relationship with. If it's both, you're Bi. If you date guys, but think girls would be cool to hook up with but not have a relationship with, I wouldnt consider yourself to be bisexual.
Hope that helps.
2007-01-08 18:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just off track for some strange reason. You just have to tell yourself thats a sick way to fantasize and get back to the real world.
2007-01-08 18:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you could have a serious relationship with either a male or a female, then you're bisexual. But when it all comes down to it, you just have to decide for yourself what your preferences are.
2007-01-08 18:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not uncommon for a young person to have your questions and feelings--what you finally decide is your choice---just take your time and be comfortable. Experimenting is natural. Just be careful and be safe. Get a book or two on this subject--volumes are written about it--see..it's not so strange.
2007-01-08 18:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think u r bisexual but the reason u feel u r more into girls coz u didnot sleep with a girl before or maybe u havenot slept with a girl for long
2007-01-08 18:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST YOU SAID YOUR INTERESTED IN BOYS THEN YOU SAID YOUR INTERESTED IN GIRLS THEN YOU SAID YOU NOT INTERESTED IN BOYS........MY CONCLUSION IS YOUR JUST PLAIN OL' CONFUSED
2007-01-08 19:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-08 20:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by DemoDicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your hart
2007-01-08 18:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by masih.nadeem 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋