What did i do wrong?

Question

i have sex with this girl who happens to be my co-worker for a few times.then it came to a point where she will ask me to call her when i get home so she will come over to my place.But anytime i call she will give me an excuse.The last time she said she will be there in few minutes(she lives close by)but never showed up.Now if i talk to her she responds but she tries sometimes to avoid me.I have to add that we never had a relationship,we were only having sex.Why will she say call me and then give me an excuse not to show up.Why is she bahaving that way?

Answer 1

Since you call this woman your co-worker, I guess you two never considered friendship before jumping straight to the sex. She probably wants more than sex from you now, but she figures the only way to keep your attention is to keep making the booty calls. Since you work together (and she's obviously confused about how to interact with you), it's probably very awkward for her. It's like she has a crush on you...but you got the goods already...so now what?

If you just want sex, you should probably leave this person alone, but your curiosity about her behavior seems to indicate that you're actually concerned about more than sex.

Answer 2

She feels as though because you two work together and have shared the same bed on a couple of occaisions that it will be impolite or whorish to tell you that she has someone else. Although you two never made any promises she feels obligated. But hey at least feel good that she has that much respect for you that she cares what you think. "Man some guys have all the luck," I personally have been unable to achieve that so hats off to you my friend.

Answer 3

I know its to late now but in the future never have sex with a co-worker,It never works. My old boss married his secretary and they spent the whole day together and then go home together.
She finally got a different job.
The truth is.....
You had sex only a few times for a reason, you're not what she's looking for.
Move on and act like it never happened.

Answer 4

Either she's a flake or you're too accessible. Or perhaps it got weird and she doesn't want people to find out. Either way, don't always try to talk to her anytime you can. You don't want to smother her. Talk to the other birds and see what she does. If she gets jealous, you're home free. You can call the shots. If she doesn't care then it was just a fling and she's over you. Always be cordial with her and try to stay friends (you have to work with her mind you). That's how you play it "SMOOVE." Good luck!

Answer 5

who knows and who cares? it might not have anything to do with you at all. but if she is acting this way then it should tell you that she really doesn't want to see you again- for whatever reason. if you weren't emotionally involved then just forget about it..and her. and since she is a co-worker and you may run into her in the work place, then just don't bring anything up, just as if nothing ever happened, but if she tries to get cozy again I would just politely tell her that you have other obligations

Answer 6

Easy, she is so over u, but u aren't getting it!
Wake up, it was nice while it lasted but it's over!
Move on and chalk it up to experience!
U need to learn an age old expression, don't graze
where u work!

Answer 7

Basically she is filling the man's role in this situation and acting like a male pig that hits it and quits it.

Answer 8

Dear she is keeping you on a line incase she has nothing better to do. Leave her alone and go elsewhere...you don't need toxic people like that in your life hon!

Answer 9

Did she possibly have a boyfriend that she was having a bad relationship and they may have patched it up or maybe you may not meet her standards? : {

Answer 10

Maybe the thrill is gone. Don't take it personally. Find someone new.