lately my so called friends talked behind my back and told veryone they knew I was gay ( which I am not). well its not the first time they done this. they tell stuff to each other but doesnt tell the person who they talk about to their face. y do they do that.
2007-01-08 17:09:42 · 13 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friends come and go but good friends stick up for you and would not talk behind your back.
They sound young and immature.
Just be yourself and you'll make new friends elsewhere.
With friends like that who needs enemies?
Good luck
2007-01-08 17:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by coffeemate 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep your opinions to yourself around both and don't tell one what the other said. All either will do is get you in trouble. And truthfully if someone is talking about one friend their probably talking about all of their friends at some point.
2016-05-22 22:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are hypocrite. Two-faces snake!!! There are many people just like them around us. I am also have this type of problem, anyhow, I never bother about them because if you are angry, they won't know (as they talked at the back of us), they thought we don't know. Therefore, what for we need to angry?? no point, right? But sometimes, I feel sympathy for them as well because they need to carry two roles, one is so called our friend, the other is enemy attack us at the back. What we need to do is just be ourselve, mouths are at their faces, as long as we don't try to harm others' life and hurt others, that's enough! We have nothing to scare even someone knock your door at midnight!
2007-01-08 17:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Melon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when one is too free, one tends to GOSSIP.
and i guess maybe 80% know that they are just CRAPPING.
and after that, guilt will bit them a bit...
so they think it is better not to double check with you if you are a gay or not.
if not, you will be angry at them. they will lose a "friend/colleague/lead of their cruel gossips"
do you think these BIGMOUTHS will actually care if you are hurt?
maybe 20% of their heart will care.. then 80% care more for what to gossip about. :|
if you were to get too upset with their words, SILLY U!
:)
who knowS? Maybe they are the subject of others' gossips as well! :D
so cheer up a bit... dont ponder too deep into those gossips.
u cant stop their mouth.
but u can lit ur day.
2007-01-08 18:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by alibaba 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion is to find new friends.but no matter which way you turn ppl will go behind your back and say stuff to fit in with whatever crowd is "in" that week.it's something you will learn to deal with as time goes on.....it's not a big deal,ppl talk and so waht,they are the loosers and the ones loosin out on a possibly good friendship.dont let it get ya down.best of luck to ya!
2007-01-08 17:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by chica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it makes them feel better to put others down....... and maybe it makes them think that if they say something bad about someone else then no one else will think that about them because they had already picked on someone else about it.... They don't want anyone to find out that they are gay.... Your friends are a bunch of homos dude... time to get some new friends.......
2007-01-08 17:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not real friends. Real friends stand by each other, respect each other, are there for each other. Please, join a club or sport or something else you enjoy and make new acquaintences with your values and interests. You will find a true and real friend.
2007-01-08 17:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not your friend cause i believe if they were your friends they would never talk behind your back. They are called traitors, loosers, hypocrites etc
Don't ever call them friend they don't deserve you as their friend.
2007-01-08 17:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by auntsid 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is very simple. Real friends don't talk behind your back.
2007-01-08 17:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by solapine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They do that because they are not real friends. Ditch them and find people who actually care about you.
2007-01-08 17:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by * 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋