I've been really worried about myself, because (this is the first time I've ever told ANYONE) I sometimes like watching girls in porn. I think I'm insane. Haha.
2007-01-08 17:07:05 · 12 answers · asked by Kay-Kay Sixx 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I guess I'm just afraid to accept that because of the views of society? Ughh... ><
2007-01-08 17:20:35 · update #1
No you are not insane but just bi-curios its normal to be one....!!!! Keep enjoying all such stuff & experince such a relationship also for the sake of more sexual satisfaction....!!!!
2007-01-08 17:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does there have to be a 'line' - I think it's just a continuum or a spectrum. And the color of the moment might be a range too. It doesn't have to be just one thing.
Personally I'm way over on the straight end of that spectrum most of the time and even I have met men I found attractive briefly - They were just not attractive enough to me - to be interested in them sexually. I experimented a bit to see whether it was just preconceptions but I found I was disinterested after the first few minutes -
And as for porn - nada...
All male male porn is so dull to me that it would put me to sleep.
That said; it fascinates many women and for that matter lots of (if not most) "straight" men find lesbian porn irresistible. I think that the best thing you can do is to be honest with yourself and accept who you are, as you are.
I'm not saying you have to take out a full page advertisement in the newspaper or anything - just live your life as the person you are... Anyway that's my opinion, but whatever you do is your business - it's your life, and no-one else is going to live it or regret the missed opportunities, if you don't go for it when the time comes to say something. I think that love is too much of gift, too special to make a difference whether that special person is a he or she, is just the luck of the draw.
2007-01-08 17:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Michael Darnell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls are usually better looking anyway. Just because you get turned on watching a girl doing something sexual or acting 'sexy' does not mean you are suddenly bisexual. It means you are reacting to the sexuality in general, that's all. It's normal. It's porn! That's the reaction you're 'supposed' to have.
If you find yourself looking at fully clothed women and constantly wondering what it would be like for you to have sex with them and possibly really wanting to have sex with a number of different women for lots of different reasons, then maybe you might be bisexual or at least curious.
Honestly, I could consider myself bisexual because I find some woman attractive just like I find some men attractive. I've slept with women before and it was OK, just like it was OK when I've slept with some men. When it really comes down to it, I'm happier with a boyfriend who I love. That's the best sex I've ever had, so ultimately I'm pretty much straight. I could probably fall in love with a woman but I'm not sure if I would ever feel totally comfortable with it. Either I've got a hangup or else I'm not 'truly' bisexual. I don't worry about it and neither should you.
*If you are bisexual, it's not like you need to inform 'society' about it!
2007-01-08 17:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by Pico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that all most everyone is bi to some extent--some lesser or more (I can't speak as to guys--but it seems very common in women--I suspect guys as well--but afraid to talk about or admit or even acknowledge it).
Besides-- the fact that you are attracted to watching girls does not make you insane. Might make you bi or lesbian--but not insane.
2007-01-08 21:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people believe that being heterosexual, bisexual, and being gay isn't as cut and paste as society would have people believe. There are in betweens. You can be more into chicks but still be bisexual, as well as being more into guys and still be bi. It's mostly in how you choose to identify yourself. Don't stress over it. You are who you are and smacking label on it isn't going to change that fact.
2007-01-08 17:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by katchoo_792 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say the line is action. Looking and getting aroused by porn is one thing. Feeling desire for a girl and acting on it is another.
2007-01-08 17:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by raduodogi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They Say if You are not Bisexual, You are missing out on 50% of the action.
2007-01-08 17:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tank Stillton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't necessarily mean anything at all.
Just remember what Freud said: "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar."
2007-01-08 17:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just normal. It is only the hung-up, hypocritcal people who think hetero is the only way; they are afraid of their own desires.
2007-01-08 17:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sue_Desdemona 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no line, its up to the person to set their own standards and how far to go. Me... I am a trisexual... I'll try anything once... or twice.
2007-01-08 20:01:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋